Ha!  Nice guy, eh?  

I'm not wired for open relationships, though similarly I've been casually involved with women whom I know were seeing other men.  I know though that were I  more into these women, it definitely wouldn't work for me.  It didn't put me out only because I didn't care enough about them to care.  

I've a good friend that considers herself "polyamorous."  She once lived with two men and they considered themselves to be in a committed relationship.  It's not something I can imagine for myself.  I know another couple that have an "open marriage."  They seem to love each other deeply, but they get action on the side (but never together).  Again, I can't imagine it for myself.  

At any point in my life that I've been in love, I didn't want to be with anybody else.  It's not that I didn't look at someone here and there and think they were attractive, or even think to myself that if my situation were different... but never regretfully.  

Perhaps some people are wired for "open" and some are simply not.  I count myself in the latter category.  

I am not into open relationships. I seem to not be able to find one TRUE honest, attractive intelligent male. No matter what I do.. they all seem to have issues!! He must be out there somewhere!

I'm not comfortable with the idea of an open relationship. Either by being in that kind of relation or by having sex with someone in that situation. It seams to me that one person do it more to accommodate the other one needs.

That's weird that you approach the subject today, because my friend with benefice, told me that the day that he would be in a serious relation, he still want to see me on the side. And for me it's really strange, cause fatefulness is important to me.

(sorry for the bad grammar english is not my first language and I'm quite rusty)

"I instant messaged him back: "To be honest, I am looking for someone younger". And then I blocked him, which ends that particular chapter."

This is why I like you.

Years ago my ex wife and I were having a discussion about freedom.  One thing led to another and she jokingly asked "So I can have multiple lovers?"

To which I replied "Absolutely.  I however, won't be one of them!"

Too complicated indeed.  I can barely manage one.

I took a leaf from your book today AHG.

He said he met someone else, I said I met someone with a bigger penis.

It made me feel better  :)