I've never been able to successfully date jealous men. I'm not exactly polyamorous, but I definitely like to have a slew of male admirers in my life. Being a Professional Dominatrix is a good way to go about achieving that goal.
So ironically, being paid to dominate men is a kind of kink of mine. It puts me in the position of being unattainable, and I like playing hard to get. Indefinitely. It keeps my actual love relationship fresh, because I come home from appointments invigorated, a little high on my own power.
At the end of the day, I know it's not really power. Not of a substantial kind. It's a game and an illusion. But it's enough to set my pants on fire, so I don't complain.
It's a bit unorthodox (and a little dirty), but it does the trick. Do you guys have anything like that?
