Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

airheadgenius — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 02:11:27 GMT

Men do not like to be beaten at pool by women. I had a first date at a pool hall once and the guy totally sucked. I beat him 7 times in a row. It was his suggestion to go there too, but clearly he hadn't got the "English chicks play pool" memo.

This is not off topic, but seems weirdly incongruous none the less. Ah well, I refuse to apologise for it.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

thea — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 22:11:31 GMT

I don't get how these 2 topics (fisting and apologizing) relate to each other. The disgusting fellow in the pic doesn't really provide a bridge. Just makes me think of his crusty digits inside my vagina...

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

E-Claire — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 16:09:37 GMT

Oh and as for the "apologizing too much" thing. I agree with the comment on the original blog, its a way for people to get validation and reassurance through the response. "its okay, my fault, don't worry about it". I guess it can be seen as both insecure and passive aggressive behaviour.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

E-Claire — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 15:59:12 GMT

I've always found it interesting that females wave their "i have a tiny vagina" banner proudly, just like the comments on this blog.

Sure, that works for the average guys, which is nice. But the average guy wouldn't complain about an average girl either, would he? And the average girl can then have her pick of penis-y delights.

Also I do believe that although a woman's lady parts are "accommodating" when it comes to intense extremes, like fisting, if she does her exercising, it shouldn't come to a situation where sex could be described as "throwing a hotdog down a hallway".

To get to the point, I guess its all relative. We are stretchy elastic types, us females.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

vix_en25 — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 15:26:17 GMT

and to that i say 'yum yum!'

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

amboabe — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 15:03:55 GMT

Vix: well technically mucus flaps was a labia reference. I think the more specific term I used was mucus tunnel.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

askmeanything — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 13:10:19 GMT

I've always been more of a one finger kinda gal (one finger with carefully shortened fingernail) so I can't imagine going to fisting. I don't even like my men "big", I prefer average-ish. Not tiny but a normal medium size. I've had good lovers who had small penises though. And a long term relationship with a larger than average guy where the sex was so uncomfortable/painful for me I became practically frigid.

I've always marveled at the fact that some gay men are size-ists when they have recipient anal intercourse. Ouch! Talk about the potential for permanent damage also - no sex is worth the risk of a lifetime of incontinence.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

vix_en25 — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 10:29:35 GMT

anathema_teatime, youre a braver woman than I. I can't imagine putting extremely large objects inside of my... what did you call it amboabe... oh right! meatflaps! kudos to all you women who experiement with pain like that!

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

amboabe — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 05:45:55 GMT

Ora: I almost feel unethical about having snuck in that picture of Shane. A la Black Francis, "All my choices were pure. I made them, I made them."

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

anathema_teatime — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 04:32:57 GMT

@vix_en25: "Are large vaginas born or made?"

Dunno, but as someone who enjoy large cocks and larger toys (as noted in my prior blog response the first time this came up, I have tried to be fisted, but it just was not feasible. Which is actually probably a good thing, though I was curious. Then after I read that Belle de Jour can fist herself, I tried that, but nope. That would have been more of a party trick than anything, but a heck of one.), I do my kegels religiously. They seem to be working so far, according to unbiased third-person reports.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

ora deplora — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 02:04:59 GMT

Coupling this essay with that photograph was brilliantly disgusting.

If I never see another orifice it will be too soon.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

PO — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 23:35:21 GMT

With this topic, I believe I have bumped my head against my flesh ceiling.

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

vix_en25 — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:29:14 GMT

Are large vaginas born or made?

re: Dating the Web: Don't Google Fisting, and Why Women Apologize So Much

Spelunker — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 18:04:57 GMT

I experienced a macro-vagina, attached to an otherwise petite girl I dated for several months. Giant. Cavernous. Luckily, either because of (a) a corresponding blessing to counter her bad luck, or (b) self awareness of the situation and years of intense practice, she had voluntary control over her internal muscles, enabling her to grab and squeeze and manipulate me with hand-like precision, making intercourse pretty enjoyable.

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