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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.nerve.com/CS/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Nerve Insider : break ups</title><link>http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/tags/break+ups/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: break ups</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2007.1 (Build: 20910.1126)</generator><item><title>New on Nerve, 5.21.08: Miss Information</title><link>http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/2008/05/21/new-on-nerve-5-21-08-miss-information.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">bd485f5c-a45b-491f-8e52-c79e7f680fc3:95293</guid><dc:creator>Peter Smith</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=95293</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/2008/05/21/new-on-nerve-5-21-08-miss-information.aspx#comments</comments><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/2008/05/16-22/missinfo052108.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/2008/05/16-22/missinfo052108.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This week, Miss Info cracks open a pint of Ben &amp;amp; Jerry&amp;#39;s for a recently dumped reader in need of some comfort. First she offers a disclaimer:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;em&gt;How do I get over a heartbreak? Poorly. Same as everybody else.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But she&amp;#39;s also got some useful tips:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I guess one thing I consistently do that I haven&amp;#39;t observed in everybody else — or at least a good number of people who write me letters — is that I don&amp;#39;t have a lot of contact with my exes. Interacting with them right after the breakup is bad news, I&amp;#39;ve found. It always inflicts pain on one or more parties. When it doesn&amp;#39;t, it&amp;#39;s a temporary sort of pleasure that you have regrets about the next morning, week, etc. as the complications set in. Like eating McDonald&amp;#39;s. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;Read the whole column &lt;a class="" href="http://www.nerve.com/regulars/missinformation/159/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, you poor lovelorn sods.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.nerve.com/CS/aggbug.aspx?PostID=95293" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/tags/miss+information/default.aspx">miss information</category><category domain="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/tags/erin+bradley/default.aspx">erin bradley</category><category domain="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/tags/break+ups/default.aspx">break ups</category><category domain="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/tags/ben+_2600_amp_3B00_+jerry/default.aspx">ben &amp;amp; jerry</category><category domain="http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/tags/mcdonald_2700_s/default.aspx">mcdonald's</category></item><item><title>New on Nerve, 4.3.08: Dating Advice From…The Recently Dumped</title><link>http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/2008/04/03/new-on-nerve-4-3-08-dating-advice-from-the-recently-dumped.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 15:37:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">bd485f5c-a45b-491f-8e52-c79e7f680fc3:82824</guid><dc:creator>Nicole Ankowski</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=82824</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/archive/2008/04/03/new-on-nerve-4-3-08-dating-advice-from-the-recently-dumped.aspx#comments</comments><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;a href="http://nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/2008/04/01-07/recentlydumped.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://nerve.com/CS/blogs/nerveinsider/2008/04/01-07/recentlydumped.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think you have to be &lt;i&gt;in&lt;/i&gt; a
relationship to dole out dating advice? Hells no. Sometimes those recent
breakups shed some insightful truths on the entire dating world. Check out
today’s &lt;a href="http://www.nerve.com/regulars/datingadvicefrom/therecentlydumped/"&gt;Dating
Advice From…The Recently Dumped&lt;/a&gt;. They’re not bitter, they just tell it like
it is….&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What&amp;#39;s
the best remedy for the break-up blues?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In order: Friends, wine, cigarettes, your hand, and a little bit of trickle
over.&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Trickle over? Ex sex?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Yeah.&lt;a href="http://www.nerve.com/regulars/datingadvicefrom/therecentlydumped/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Heed
the advice right here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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