We love how this male writer cites a female Emily Post wannabe in ripping up Australia's women, presumably after having been dumped by a wild party girl like the ones he attacks so ruthlessly.
Then again, we don't disagree with a few of his points about the "fairer sex."
If the evidence screened on a recent popular reality television show [don't say The Hills - Ed.] is
to be believed then certain young, modern, Australian women are not
only completely lacking in good manners but they are also foul-mouthed,
loud and uncultured.
All of that is true of all English-speaking people in this day and age, the men included.
it's interesting to look at just how far the modern woman – regardless
of age, race, status or income – has sunk in her attempt to "live in a
man's world."
This all kinds of awful-- perhaps one of our readers can take this line to task, especially that last snarky remark... we don't have the patience.
Many Australian women are now socially inept, particularly when it
comes to manners – from the businesswoman who orders the hotel
concierge to get them a cab "quick smart" to the moody shop assistant
who rolls her eyes when asked for help and then turns to the next
assistant and announces that she cannot wait to knock off.
What about the businessman who orders up a hooker from Craig's List and then complains to her madame that she makes him wear a condom? What about the dudes who feel no qualms about hitting on a woman sitting at the bar when her boyfriend goes to the bathroom? What about the moody male video store clerk who rolls his eyes when you ask what came out this week? What if-- well, you get the point.
Then comes a line (the first one here) that we agree with 100%:
A Brisbane businessman recently revealed that, when he opened a door
for two professional women exiting an office, he received no
acknowledgement only to have a glass door slammed in his face after
following them out. Many men are now becoming reluctant to open doors
for women because they merely get "huffed" at and pushed aside.
Women almost never-- I should do a social experiment, but I would guess it's one out of ten, tops-- thank us or even acknowledge us holding the door for them. And we don't mean we stop for more than two seconds to hold the door-- it's not like we're standing there expectantly. We just know that they're a few steps back and will have to deal with the door swinging back in their faces if we don't stop to hold it. We do the same thing for anyone, regardless of gender or any other quality of the person(s) behind us. But men always mutter a casual but polite thank you-- I'm guessing at least eight or nine out of every ten.
Not cool, ladies. And another thing:
Women in the 40 to 60-year-old age bracket regard footpaths, aisles and
malls as theirs alone. Put two or three of these women together and
everyone must make way for them. In their world nothing comes between
them and their conversation, certainly not manners or respect.
We disagree with this statement, if only because our experience is with strollers in Brooklyn and the side-by-side lineup of those monsters, each of which is wider than a motorcycle with a sidecar. Author Ian Wallace would likely agree if he lived in New York. Meanwhile, he cites June-Dally Watkins, the Emily Post type we cited, as saying good manners is an important character trait for all women. We say it's important in everyone.
Read his full story here.
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