http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/scanner/archive/2008/04/28/when-straight-marriage-goes-gay.aspxThe New York Times this weekend explored how transgendered couples are challenging the marriage laws in New Jersey. Donald and Frances Brunner married in 1980. In 2005 Donald became Denise. Still legally married, the couple just amended the marriage licenseenCommunityServer 2007.1 (Build: 20910.1126)http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/scanner/archive/2008/04/28/when-straight-marriage-goes-gay.aspx#89301Tue, 29 Apr 2008 14:34:46 GMTbd485f5c-a45b-491f-8e52-c79e7f680fc3:89301Vanessa<p>What amazes me is the heartache and pain the conservatives cause others who dare to be different. God made us all, wonderfully, fearfully. A transgendered person didn’t wake up one day and decide to be that way, any more than a gay person decided to be gay. We are born as we are, a gift to this world from God.</p> <p>Hugs,</p> <p>Vanessa</p> <p><a rel="nofollow" target="_new" href="http://www.crossdresserheaven.com">www.crossdresserheaven.com</a></p> <img src="http://www.nerve.com/CS/aggbug.aspx?PostID=89301" width="1" height="1">