Question 6:
What was the most transformative sexual experience of your life?
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Question 6: What was the most transformative sexual experience of your life? |
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 My most transformational sexual experience happened during my first post-marital love affair in the mid-60s. Neither of us wanted to get married again. We agreed love could be inclusive, and we let go of being monogamous while maintaining our primary relationship. He was the first man I'd ever known who was willing to explore sex without a double standard. After ten years, we stopped having physical sex, but we've remained good friends who still love sharing mental sex. For the past thirty-three years, Professor Grant has remained devoted to me, to my work, and to his favorite pastimes: playing chess and wanking with porn. He is currently my webmaster. Just as Nancy felt she was born to be a seductress, I've always felt destined to be a sexual explorer, living on the edge. During the first year of my marriage, I tried to ignore those peripheral flashes from my primitive brain, a brain that hated the idea of only having sex with my husband for the rest of my life. For me, there was something basically wrong about erotically shutting out the rest of the world in the name of love. Some people think the reason I still feel this way today is because I've never known "true love." My answer is, I've known it many times. While I can honor a person's choice to be monogamous, I despise the fact that society makes it compulsory for all women. My chosen lifestyle is simply part of the sexual diversity that exists in contemporary society, yet I'm seldom able to voice my preference of being a bachelor without being called a "slut," a word that's become a term of endearment among my women friends. Recently I was invited to a dinner party where the hostess warned her two gay male friends and me that one of her guests, an older woman with a fancy shop in Trump Towers, wasn't very open-minded about sex, so could we please cool it. Without sex talk, the dinner conversation centered around the latest violent crimes. Over coffee, her guest started trashing a woman who'd been in the news by calling her a slut. Smiling sweetly, I turned to her and announced, "I'm a slut too." The table broke up laughing, including the reigning matriarch. For the rest of the evening we talked about sex. |
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