Question 2: Most of you seem to agree that child sexuality is natural and normal on its own, but becomes problematic in the context of our culture. Do late-twentieth-century images (e.g. Calvin Klein ads, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Barbie, etc.), books (most famously, Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret, Forever and other books by Judy Blume), and films (Kids, the new Lolita, PG-rated movies with sex and nudity) involving child/adolescent sexuality promote or encourage kids to become sexually active before their time? Do they influence the rates of teen pregnancy and STDs, and the age at which kids lose their virginity today? Or, could it be argued that they promote positive sexual identities, comfort with one's own changing body, better gender/sexual relations and a freedom to ask questions? |
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The question is posed as "either/or" but the proper response is "neither/nor." No, movies, TV, books and other cultural expressions do not, in and of themselves, "influence the rates of teen pregnancy and STDs," and no, images and messages cannot be dismissed as
"mere reflections of reality."
It's intriguing that you specifically cite Calvin Klein ads, Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Barbie . . . And what reality, pray tell, do such icons reflect? High school kids encounter many challenges today but night stalking blood suckers are not, generally speaking, among them. One of the most striking aspects of contemporary popular culture is how poorly it mirrors the reality that most Americans experience, with its emphasis on the hip, rich and unattached in New York or LA, while most of us do in fact live in some sort of family configuration in places between the big media centers. Pop culture's distortions of ordinary life do not automatically render such entertainment worthless or destructive; after all, every form of high or schlock art reaches for some sort of exceptional drama or beauty or horror. But the common argument that TV and movies show us as we are can only be advanced by those who either live in Hollywood or Manhattan or, on the other hand, never see TV or movies. An acknowledgment that the entertainment industry doesn't reflect the real world leads, inevitably and logically, to another conclusion: that pop culture doesn't single-handedly shape the real world. In terms of this question, a recognition that mass media aren't "mere reflections of reality" requires a recognition that these media cannot "influence the rates of teen pregnancy and STDs . . ." The theory that media messages determine people's lives and values, and the theory that media messages only mirror people's lives and values, would both require some resemblance between media messages and the lives and values of most Americans -- and that resemblance does not, thank goodness, exist. Consider this issue of child sexuality. Every survey of the issue that I have ever seen suggests that the overwhelming majority of parents, of every ethnic, religious or income group, worry about their kids growing up too soon and too cynical. Popular culture, however, flamboyantly disregards these worries -- just as many American kids flamboyantly disregard the messages of pop culture. In one of the most under-reported stories of our time, nearly a million teenagers have now signed the "True Love Waits" pledge, committing themselves to avoiding intercourse before marriage. Of course, some of these kids will no doubt betray their good intentions, but the very public statement of such intentions, regardless of ultimate follow through, remains remarkable and significant. It shows that even teenagers, who are notoriously most vulnerable to messages about what constitutes hip and stylish behavior, can defy the standards of the mass media culture. That does not mean, however, that they are altogether untouched by those standards and values. The contention that the entertainment industry has no influence on our kids is just as illogical and insipid as the notion that this industry is the only influence. Entertainment is indeed a powerful force in shaping attitudes and behavior, but it is, in the last analysis, one of many. When it comes to childhood sexuality another potent force is the national obsession with adolescence, advanced most famously by my own baby boom cohort. If parents treat kids like best friends and equals, that allows those parents to delay growing up -- and to invite their kids to join them in the fun-filled fever swamps of perpetual adolescence. If your kids can be viewed as lusty, hormone-addled, playful adolescents then it enables parents to continue seeing themselves in the same way. One of the principal themes of my new book (Saving Childhood, co-authored with my wife, Dr. Diane Medved) is that allowing children to be children forces parents to behave like adults -- placing all sorts of inconvenient demands on aging boomers passionately committed to remaining "forever young." In any event, the last part of your question must be meant as a joke, right? The very notion that current cultural exploitation of child sexuality "promotes positive sexual identities, comfort with one's own changing body, better gender/sexual relations" and so forth is so ludicrous that it barely requires comment. If our current media images promote "comfort with one's own changing body" then why do more and more pubescent girls suffer the ravages of anorexia? In what way do the current horrifying statistics about STDs, out-of-wedlock birth and, worst of all, teen suicide (the federal government estimates that eight percent of all adolescents will attempt suicide at one time or another) suggest "better gender/sexual relations"? In conclusion, pop culture messages cannot solely be blamed for our current predicament, nor can they be credited for improvements in youthful behavior that most certainly do not exist. |
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