Savage Love

My boyfriend wants me to push him around in bed. How can I learn to be more assertive? Dan Savage | 11.16.2011 | Comments (18)

My friend is making me feel bad for hooking up with a guy I didn't know was off-limits. Dan Savage | 11.9.2011 | Comments (35)

Should I contact my crazy ex? Dan Savage | 11.2.2011 | Comments (8)

My girlfriend of four years cheated on me, and told me about it. Should I do the same to her? Dan Savage | 10.26.2011 | Comments (22)

Should my girlfriend and I bare-back it with close friends? Dan Savage | 10.12.2011 | Comments (20)

I found my homophobic roommate's gay videos on XTube. Dan Savage | 10.5.2011 | Comments (32)

The female orgasm according to Dan. Dan Savage | 09.28.2011 | Comments (34)

Earlobe-stretching enthusiasts strike back against Dan's anti-plug rant. Dan Savage | 09.21.2011 | Comments (33)

I'm a twenty-year-old girl. Should I feel bad about watching porn? Dan Savage | 09.14.2011 | Comments (21)

How come none of my boyfriends want to have threesomes with me and another girl? Dan Savage | 09.7.2011 | Comments (21)

A husband quotes Dan as an excuse to cheat; Dan's not having it. Dan Savage | 08.31.2011 | Comments (22)

Is my friend really asexual, or is he just fooling himself? Dan Savage | 08.24.2011 | Comments (19)

"I think I found a picture of my sister on Craigslist. Should I say something?" Dan Savage | 08.17.2011 | Comments (30)

“I’m bi. How do I tell the straight girls I date without scaring them off?” Dan Savage | 08.10.2011 | Comments (33)

True stories of vacation hookups from Dan's readers. Dan Savage | 08.3.2011 | Comments (25)

Do I have to tell my one-night stands that I'm in a monogamish relationship? Dan Savage | 07.27.2011 | Comments (20)

Is my boyfriend emotionally abusive, or is he just insecure? Dan Savage | 07.20.2011 | Comments (35)

My brother has a secret, and it's freaking me out. Dan Savage | 07.13.2011 | Comments (26)

Birth control is ruining my sex life! Dan Savage | 07.6.2011 | Comments (16)

My boyfriend's not kinky enough for me. How much am I allowed to push him? Dan Savage | 06.29.2011 | Comments (27)

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