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Why are bridesmaids better in bed?
The main responsibility of a bridesmaid is to cater to the bride and make her feel special before and during her wedding day. A bridesmaid has to be selfless. This goes far in the bedroom.

Why is a wedding a good place to meet someone?
Weddings are expensive. So when the bride and groom invite you to their wedding, you already know they’re also inviting other quality people who are loving and close to them. They usually don’t extend an invitation to their unpredictable or wacky friends and family members. The bride and groom also want great wedding presents, so the people they invite are most likely more generous. These are all very attractive traits.

How far is "too far" to go at a bachelorette party? What about a bachelor party?
If you wake up the morning after your bachelor/bachelorette party in bed naked with someone who is not your soon-to-be life partner, you’ve gone too far. Otherwise, the bachelor/bachelorette party is a time to enjoy your last few moments of singledom before moving on to the next chapter of life. Have fun.

My girlfriend and I act like we're already married in the worst ways. We barely go out and our sex life is boring. How can we spice things up?
It sounds like you both need to reconnect. One of the best ways to do this is by taking a trip. Being away from your normal life and daily activities will shake things up and remind each of you why you’re together. It doesn’t have to be exotic, just some place where it’s only you and her in unfamiliar surroundings. However, an exotic place will bring out her more uninhibited side.

A good female friend and I used to jokingly call each other "platonic life partners," but now I think I might be in love with her. I'm not sure, and I don't want to jeopardize our friendship. What should I do?
You should jokingly say to her one day, “Remember when we used to call each other platonic life partners? I wonder how it would’ve worked out if we were no longer platonic." Her response to this will give you more insight into her feelings. If she says something like, “There’ s no need to wonder — it would never happen." Then you know that idea is not appealing to her. But if she says something such as, “Who knows? It could be interesting..." then you know there’s some interest on her part.

Every time I'm around my boyfriend's family, his dad makes pervy comments about my sex life with his son. I don't want to cause any family tension, so I've never mentioned it to my boyfriend. How can I get this behavior to stop?
You have to stand up to your boyfriend’s dad and tell him your sex life is none of his business, whether it’s with his son or not. His behavior continues because you have allowed it to. Put him in his place, and it will come to an end.

Is it ever okay to fake an orgasm?
It’s difficult for your partner to know what turns you on if you are faking. Also, if your partner isn’t able to arouse you enough to give you an orgasm, there may be some other issues that need to be addressed. Don’t fake it.

The love of my life is marrying someone else who I know is a cheater. Should I reach out with a warning, or not say anything?
You say you know this person is a cheater, but how do you really know? Is this hearsay or have you actually seen him cheating? Instead of saying something, you should try to put the love of your life in a position where he discovers on his own that his potential life partner is a cheater. Your motives may be questioned if you share these concerns yourself.

I'm a guy and my girlfriend and I just got back together after a yearlong hiatus. When we weren't dating, I started experimenting with guys. I still prefer girls, and I only want to be with my girlfriend. So do I have to tell her?
If you truly love your girlfriend, you should love her enough to give her the ability to decide for herself if she can deal with your past sexual encounters. Especially if you think you may want to be intimate with another guy again in the future. It will also be liberating for you to share this aspect of your personality with her. Secrets are destructive to relationships.