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What's the best way to pick up a cougar?
I feel the best way to pick up a cougar is the same way you would meet any love interest. Cougars look for a confident, charming, witty, fun guy who knows he has something to offer a strong mature woman. There is an element of chemistry or maybe just a mutual attraction. Be yourself, because we all know woman can tell when you are not.
What's sexy about sleeping with younger guys?
Younger men are hot because they have tons of energy and stamina. They are typically not set in their ways and can be very flexible. Some cougars like the chase, but I am aggressive myself and like to get straight to the point. A lot of younger men like this because women can sometimes be hard to figure out.
I'm an older woman looking to start a lasting relationship with a younger man. Is this a possibility, or is being a cougar all about the sex?
For me, being a cougar means knowing what you want and going after it! Having the confidence and knowledge to know you do not have to settle for less than what you want! It’s like any relationship: find what works for you and your partner. That is where cutting through the chase comes in! If it is not all about sex for you, do not make it all about sex.
My mom and my girlfriend are the same age. I'd like to introduce them, but I'm feeling a bit awkward about it. What's the best way to prepare my mother?
Be honest and let her know how old your girlfriend is. Then she will be prepared and ready to meet her. If your mom has a problem with it, let her know you really like this person and give her time.
All of my friends tell me I'm too easy and that's why guys never call me back. How do I play hard to get?
Number-one thing: do not sleep with him on the first date!
My boyfriend just got a job in another state, but I need to stay put because I'm still in school. I don't want to break up with him, but I'll miss the sex. How can I make long distance work with such a high libido?
This is easy for the younger generation. You have Skype and Gchat and powerful vibrators. There’s nothing to complain about!
I’ve been with my girlfriend for more than a decade, and she just told me she’s been finding herself attracted to men and wants us to open up the relationship so she can explore that. I want to be supportive because I love her, but an open relationship just isn’t something I’m comfortable with. What should I do?
Take a break! She may decide the grass is not always greener and that you are the one for her. If not, it was not meant to be.