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What are your reasons for not shaving?
Shaving seems like a drag. And I don’t like the whole prepubescent look on grown women anyway.
I'm a feminist but I've realized that I like being called a slut and whore while I'm having sex with my boyfriend. I feel personally conflicted about this. Am I being a bad feminist by engaging in these scenes or should I not think about it so much?
What’s wrong with being a slut or a whore? Maybe you should stop demonizing women’s sexuality and then you won’t be so conflicted.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a long time. As things have progressed she's given up on many of her beauty routines. She doesn't shower as often, never wears makeup, and barely ever shaves her legs. I've gently brought things up in the past, but I'm afraid nothing short of, "You're not turning me on anymore" is going to get through to her. Am I an asshole for wanting her to be properly groomed?
I think couples should be compatible with their levels of grooming. Maybe you two aren’t meant to be together. You might need someone much more uptight, and she might need someone much more cool.
I'm a woman on a dating site and I'm having trouble rejecting the girls who message me when I'm not interested. Do I need to send a polite response to their messages or can I just ignore the ones I wouldn't go out with?
I say ignore. In this case, a formal rejection seems way more upsetting than just never hearing back from some person you’ve never met.
I'm a man and recently began dating a really awesome girl. We were having a lot of fun with each other, but last week she chopped off all her hair. I'm talking extremely short. Honestly, I'm just not sexually attracted to her anymore. Should I just break it off?
Yes. Do her the favor. She is awesome and doesn’t need a dickwad like you hanging around.
Do open relationships ever work?
Yes, if both people are devoid of the emotional attachments that come with sex.
I'm a woman and I've been with my boyfriend for a while. Things have started to slow down sexually. How long is too long to go without having sex in a relationship?
This happens. Check in with each other about the relationship, but don’t place the emphasis on your sex life. The sex will be good again if you are both good to the relationship.
I got drunk and cheated on my fiancé back when we were first together. It's been years and I've had never cheated again, but I've never told him. It's always in the back of my mind. Do I have a moral obligation to tell him before we get married?
No way. You made a mistake. Get over it. However, if you continue to cheat, then you need to fess up.
My girlfriend gets super-moody right before her period and she ends up treating me like shit for a couple days. Everything is great with her when she's not PMSing, but it's still tough to take. Do hormones really make girls treat someone differently than they want to or is she using PMS as an excuse to be bitchy?
PMS is for real and it sucks. Your girlfriend probably feels pretty lousy before her rag and lashing out at you probably only makes her feel worse. You two should really talk about this when she is not upset. Let her know that her feelings are valid, but that attacking you is not okay. That way you can be supportive and caring and she can work through the stress.