Richie, 27

Where is the best place to pick up fellow Halo players?
I guess it would have to be on Xbox LIVE. Though I'm having a hard time finding a decent gal who'll play Halo with me. I have a couple friends who have married people they met playing Halo. One moved from Germany over to the U.S. to get hitched.

What's hotter, a partner who you can kill (in Halo) or someone who beats you every time?
It would be way hotter if she could beat me. I think it's a good thing when a woman can do something better than a man. If a girl can get on there and play some Halo and kick my butt, that's pretty hot.

Have you ever used a game of Halo as foreplay?
Yeah… I have. It was definitely successful. I would do it again.

During Halo marathons, do you ever forgo personal hygiene? If so, how does this affect your sex life?
Not really. I play a lot of Halo, but I have a life outside of Halo too — that's more uncommon than you would think. My personal hygiene is a big deal to me. Of course there have been a couple times when I've been playing a lot and I've missed my shower. But I don't think that's hot at all, and I don't think any one would appreciate it.

I'm a guy in my late twenties who picked up a guy at a bar and brought him home. He told me he was twenty-two, but I’m a snoop and after he fell asleep, I looked at his license. He's newly seventeen. It's not illegal in my state, and I really had a good time with him. Am I a creep if I call him again?
I'd have to say yes. The age issue is one thing, but it's also important that he lied to you. It boils down to trust. It's not illegal in your state, but you also have to think about how other people will view it. How does it look taking someone home to meet your parents when you're in your late twenties and he's in high school? It just doesn't look good. Yeah, you're a creep.

When I'm go to a bar, I want to pick up guys, but I lately I've been looking for more than a one-night stand. Should I keep my uniform of tight tank tops and miniskirts, or wear something a little less revealing to show I'm looking for something more than a fling?
Definitely tone it down. You see something like that in a bar and most men are thinking that a girl wearing something really tight is trying to get laid. If you're looking for something more than a one-night stand, I'd say dress more conservatively.

I grew up in a conservative religious home that counted sex as the eighth deadly sin. I have a pretty active sex life, but no matter how good it is, I always feel guilty afterwards. How can I shake that feeling?
Stop worrying about what everyone thinks of you. I've had friends who have been in that situation. They got over it because they just kept doing what they enjoyed doing. Family is supposed to be about unconditional love. So if they put conditions on it regarding your sexuality, then screw them.

I'm twenty-four years old and I just started my first relationship. Things are going great, but she's started asking me to open up about my past girlfriends. Should I tell her she's the first, or lie about a past so she doesn't get scared off?
You always have to be honest. I always try to be upfront from the beginning. I guess it's a little pathetic that you're twenty-four and this is your first girlfriend. But you never know, maybe it'll be a turn-on for her. Maybe she can show you a few things. Be honest, man.