Davide, 26

How do I seduce an Italian man?
You know what I don't recommend? You seducing an Italian man! I don't really like the way my friends go after women. I always advise my American girlfriends to avoid most Italian men because their view of a man-woman relationship is oftentimes embarrassingly cliché and outdated. I call this the "Dolce Vita Complex" — the Italian man thinks he is simultaneously Marcello Mastroianni and Baby Jesus.

My orgasms these days have been kind of weak. Any tips on how I can intensify them?
There are two ways. As a man, one way is to cultivate different techniques to help control your orgasms, to try and not ejaculate as long as you can. The other way — which is completely under-rated — is sober-morning sex, when all your senses are awake and functioning (plus you can actually keep the memory of how good it was). I think there isn't enough sober-morning sex in a city like New York, where the majority of sexual activities in all social and age groups revolve around working hard and partying harder.

This guy I'm sleeping with grunts too much during sex — how can I tell him, kindly, to shut up?
You can use the fetish excuse and stick a ball in his mouth. Or I would just find someone new.

My boyfriend is very flirtatious with other women when we go out. It makes me so jealous even though he tells me he loves me. Should I be bothered by this?
There are two sides to this. On the one hand, flirting is part of the way people socialize. It doesn't necessarily have to have a negative connotation to it, because people flirt all day, even in the work place. Flirting is a way of communicating and depending on the seriousness of the relationship it shouldn't be a problem. But, if you spend all night flirting with someone else, it's like why even bother going out with the person you're with? In the end your focus should be where your heart is.

I feel I'm really boring with my hands when I make out and have sex with guys. Any tips on how I can get creative with them?
Creative ways to use your hands is to not use them — tie them up!

I'm trying to be less vanilla and more edgy sexually these days. Any wild sexual experiences you recommend?
If you want more fun in bed, don't do it in bed! Do it in different locations. I would recommend rooftops and cabs. I have to say, if you're in New York you have to accommodate your sexual activities to the city. New York is great when it comes to sex during rooftops, because you have a great view.

I'm horrible at picking up girls, any original one-liners or pick-up lines I can get away with?
I usually get away with directly telling her she's beautiful and asking her digits. It's super-direct and the complete anti-pick-up line. Girls appreciate guys who are direct — no bullshit!