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JessiRae, 22
Agency: Elite (New York/Milan) Nous (Los Angeles)

What can normal folks like us do to bed a model?
I’ve never actually dated a model so let’s think, what have guys done to get me in bed? Most just act like themselves, show me a good time and are witty and charming. A few have tried to just spend money on me. Did it work? I’m not telling. My current boyfriend came across the bar to tell me that I was his dreamgirl: black hair with light eyes. The only problem was I have neither. He recovered somehow.

What’s your one, no-fail technique to keep them coming back for more?
Most men like the way I do them when I’m on top. I don’t just put it all in and rock back and forth. I kind of tease the tip, make them beg for me.

What’s the worst faux pas someone can make in bed?
Making a big deal of sounds. Things make sounds. Sex makes sounds. Don’t make me feel uncomfortable about it then expect me to feel sexy later.

Aside from condoms and lube, what is the number one thing everyone should have in their sex drawer? And why?
Wet wipes. Especially if you’ve got a roommate. Who wants to run to the bathroom every time to clean up something a moistened tissue can do just as well?

Female ejaculation, ever experienced it? If so, how did you make it happen?
It happens from time to time. I have to be on top, though, then he moves my body back and forth, like he’s sawing me across his cock. It hits something inside and I feel like I’m going to pee. You just have to relax and enjoy it.

A guy has gone limp and both parties feel inadequate. What can you do to alleviate the tension? How can you regain momentum?
The last time this happened to me, I told him that the greatest lay I’d ever had came from a guy who was too nervous to stay hard at first. That seemed to make him comfortable. Then I touched him all over, including places guys say they don’t like to be touched. He was ready to go in no time. Of course, he was also ready to blow in no time, but what can you do?

Eisa, 21
Agency: New York Models

Are there any poses/facial expressions people should avoid during sex? If so, what are they? And why should they be avoided?
Just try not to look like a killer at the moment of impact. I’d say seventy percent of men I’ve been with make a face like they’re killing an animal. It’s horrifying. You’ve got to be really good to get invited back after that.

What’s the proper answer when a lover asks how many partners you’ve had?
Six. It’s not so many you’re a whore, not so few you’re a prude. You’ve just got to be sure you add one the next time he asks.

When is same-sex interaction just for fun and when does it mean you’re bisexual? Ever done it?
In the case of girls, if you’re doing it in front of a crowd, there’s nothing gay about it. That’s just looking for attention really. Even behind closed doors, I’d say for most girls it’s just experimenting. I’ve never done it, but I don’t see any reason not to. Life is short. I’d kind of like to say the same thing about guys, but it’s different. Don’t ask why, it just is.

Any advice on having sex in public?
Getting caught is half the fun. If you’re not ready to get spotted in the act, it’s probably best to keep it in the bedroom. For the amateur exhibitionist, though, I recommend the beach at night. That’s pretty safe. People expect others to be doing it there, so if they’re wandering around in the dark too, they’re just looking for a spot themselves. I tried a train once à la Risky Business. We stayed up all night to catch a desolate 5 a.m. train. It didn’t work though. There’s no such thing as desolate in this town. Maybe in Cincinnati, but not New York.

Aside from condoms and lube, what is the number one thing everyone should have in their sex drawer? And why?
A vibrator. Men have good days and bad. My vibrator never once had to make up an excuse.

Do’s and don’ts for dirty talking?
Make sure it’s something your partner is comfortable with. Don’t go around slapping asses and calling her names if she wants to be made love to. Of course, no everyone wants to be made love to every time.

Elisa Anna, 22
Playboy/Catalog Model

What can normal folks like us do to bed a model?
To be completely honest with you, a lot of my friends date "normal guys," but with the exception of the guy I’m with now, I really only date celebrities. I’m not being shallow, though. There’s a good reason for it. When I’m dating someone famous, I can find out anything about them: where they were the night before, who they were with, what they were doing, who they were dating before me. They can’t hide. There are no secrets. It took a long time for me to build trust with the guy I’m with now — literally years — but I’m weird, I know that.

Should we be embarrassed of our bodies? Do you ever get embarrassed?
Guys shouldn’t be self-conscious. I do like a perfect (she makes a hand gesture for penis) and a perfect (gestures for ass). So long as they’ve got it where it counts, I can forgive just about anything else. I’m taller than the guy I’m dating now, but who cares once we lay down?

What’s your one, no-fail technique to keep them coming back for more?
I’m a toe licker. And I’m great at phone sex. You know what I do? I look up sexy stories on the Internet and I read them like I’m coming up with them myself. Guys love that stuff. And they never know the truth.

Any advice on having sex in public, i.e., best places, tips for not getting caught, etc.?
I’ve had sex in a lot of places in public. I love it when guys go down on me in public, that’s hotter than actual sex. But not getting caught isn’t one of my priorities. I love it when people watch. One time I was at a steak house and I got in a big fight with my boyfriend. He stormed off. I was about to cry, but all these guys in suits were staring. They were all looking at me, they wanted to come over, one even winked. I started to get excited. When my boyfriend came back, I told him he might as well just leave, but now he’s all over me. I’m drunk so I’m ready to go. I’m wearing a long gown with no underwear and he’s touching me everywhere. We almost did it right there, it was really hot. When we got up to go this older guy was like, "Have a good night." I was like, "Don’t worry, I already did." It was right out of Penthouse. What was the question again?

What’s a good way to initiate a threesome?
I think it’s better with four. Really, two guys and a girl, or two girls and guy, those are odd numbers. It’s easier to initiate a bigger group. My neighbor is a photographer, he has an after-hours party with all these models and dancers and whatever. They play strip blackjack. He puts on a porno. It always erupts into an orgy, always.

Aside from condoms and lube, what is the number one thing everyone should have in their sex drawer? And why?
A whip. And restraints. And a ball for your mouth. Really, nothing’s hotter. Keep them on hand, let your girlfriend find them, she’ll know what to do.

Laura Lee, 21
Agency: Stars

What should be known about bringing a camera into the bedroom?
Lighting is hard. The only thing is I would advise, if you’re younger, is that you hide your tape very well. My mom found my tape — I’d told my mom about it, but she didn’t believe me, but then she found it. I have a funny dysfunctional family, though. All she said was that he had a little dick.

Are there any poses/facial expressions people should avoid during sex? If so, what are they? And why should they be avoided?
Smiling is weird. Just think about it, can you imagine someone grinning while they’re on top of you. Don’t do that. Really.

What’s the worst faux pas someone can make in bed?
Not wearing underwear under your clothes if you’re trying to take things slow. That’s what happened with my current guy. I took his pants off, but the underwear barrier wasn’t there, so it kind of slipped in. Luckily it felt good. I guess I got addicted.

Aside from condoms and lube, what is the number one thing everyone should have in their sex drawer? And why?
Oil. Sex is very good when both bodies are sliding against each other. I don’t know if it would work with body hair, though.

My girlfriend always wants me to go down on her. I hate doing it, but I want to please her. Is there anything I can do to make it more enjoyable for me?
Think of ice cream. Just think of it. If you’ve got a good imagination, I’ll bet you’ll be able to taste it too.

A guy has gone limp and both parties feel inadequate. How can you regain momentum?
If it were to happen, and I’m not saying it has, but if it happened, and drugs weren’t involved, I would recommend tying him up. I find once most guys are forced to give up control, they get turned on. If that still doesn’t work, it’s time to give up.

My girlfriend is afraid of anal sex. How can I convince her?
I told my boy I’d do it if he would. I stuck a vibrator in his ass and I never heard about it again. But if he’d still wanted it after that, I would’ve been down.

Interviews by Jake Bronstein.

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