MK, 23

How does being a pot professional make you better in bed?
There is something a little bit thrilling and, well, magical about working with weed. When I was on the farm I did things I never thought I would be doing. I also did men I never thought I would be doing. I had some of the most exciting sex of my life.

Would you date someone who didn't smoke at all?
I actually prefer dating non-smokers now. I don't have a problem seeing men who smoke weed if it does them the right way. I actually quit smoking weed when I was working on the farm for many reasons, but mostly because it stopped doing me the right way; what we were growing was quite potent compared to the East Coast schwag I was used to. It made me crazy. I still have a passion for it though, and it really does help a lot of people out. But it’s not for everyone.

Do you think 4/20 is for amateurs or a real holiday that should be celebrated accordingly?
I think 4/20 means different things for different people. A lot of people see it as a day to smoke a lot of weed and neglect responsibilities. That’s cool. Others are using it to fight for the emancipation of marijuana, for therapeutic reasons and because it's a versatile resource. I think if one is passionate about it, then celebrate, celebrate, celebrate.

Do you consider pot a prerequisite for great sex, or an obstacle?
I've enjoyed sex after a light up. But there is something very real and intimate about completely sober sex, and that's what I'm about. It depends on what you are looking for when you're doing it. It's that raw connection and vulnerability that can make sex really exciting. When I'm high, it sort of guards that vulnerability and sex becomes a little more selfish. When sex is just about physical feelings, the act is less thrilling for me. 

I'm constantly tempted to cheat on my boyfriend. It's not just attraction — I seriously want to fuck other guys. Should I open the relationship up or just be discreet about the extra-relational dick I'm getting?
I'm going to start off by saying, “No!” You should not sneak in dick behind your boyfriend's back. Instead, ask yourself what is it that you are not getting from him that makes you want to get it elsewhere. This is a conversation you need to have with him. It’s going to get real, and it will probably get really awkward. Cheating is only going to compromise your relationship. Maybe you just need to change up the sex you are having with him — do it in different places, positions, talk about what you like and what you want. You might be surprised with the dirty things he wants to do with you. Or, perhaps you just need to be single. If you two do agree upon being in an open relationship, just consider that gives him the freedom to roam for pussy as well and be extra cautious of all the foreign genitals in play here.

I would like to make a sex tape with my longtime girlfriend. How can I convince her this is a good idea?
It's completely a matter of trust. She needs to be able to know that you're not going to misuse the material in anyway she is uncomfortable with if you break up. How will it be used? Who will have copies? When will it be watched? What happens if you have a bad fight? A lot of things need to be discussed. Then it's just a matter of convincing her how sexy it will be to be able to capture and re-watch your special time.

I just started dating an older guy, and I like him a lot, but he's moving the relationship along more quickly than I'm comfortable with. Is this because he's older, or is it him? Are all older guys like this?
It could be because he is older, but all men are different. I dated someone sixteen-years older than me and he had the maturity of a sixteen-year old. So no, not all older guys are like this. Perhaps this guy is more confident in what he wants out of a relationship. Give him reminders of where you are at with everything.

How can I convince my straight boyfriend to have a threesome with a guy? We've already done a threesome with another girl, and he promised he would do one with a guy but now he's having second thoughts. How can I get him to follow through?
The last thing you want is an uncomfortable threesome. Believe me, I know. Ask him if he could choose any boy he would be comfortable with seeing naked and potentially inside his girlfriend and/or himself, what type of man it would be, and go from there. Sometimes threesomes are a lot sexier in theory (and in porn) than in real life. There are a lot of emotions and jealousy that can potentially come into play, and it takes a really secure man to be in bed with another dude. He needs to be completely comfortable with the idea before it goes down, and even still, things can get tricky.