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Dan gets real with a reader who wants to know what his problem with meth is. I have an awesome relationship with an awesome guy. H…

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My gay teenager is dating a thirty-one-year-old. Where's the line between supportive and meddling? by Dan Savage I am the fath…

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How do I tell girls about my submissive fantasies? By Dan Savage I was recently advised to begin reading your column by my therapi…

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I met a great girl who bugs the hell out of me. What should I do? Thank you for your advocacy of monogamishy. (Monogamishness?) Wh…

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My family thinks my partner's abusing me — but they don't know it's consensual. by Dan Savage I'm a gay man …

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My husband broke the rules of our threesome and I’m heartbroken. Am I wrong to feel this way? By Dan Savage I had a threesom…

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My girlfriend stopped being sexual until we got married. But now we’re married, and now she hasn’t started again. By D…

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My friend is a lesbian but recently started dating a gay man. What does that make them? By Dan Savage I headed north last week to …

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Our closeted friend just outed himself on Grindr. What should we do? By Dan Savage I’m a twenty-one-year-old gay male. My fr…

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I'd be fine with my partner's kinks, if he'd just be honest about them. by Dan Savage My husband is a very kinky submi…

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I recently found my brother’s anonymous sex blog. What should I do? By Dan Savage Have boyfriend. Several months. Love sex. …

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My teenage son just came out to me. What should I do next? By Dan Savage My thirteen-year-old son came out to us this morning. He …

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Dan addresses Rick Santorum’s triumph in Iowa and gives us a new definition for “rick.” By Dan Savage I am writi…

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Success stories from nonmonogamous relationships. By Dan Savage Why do most people assume that all nonmonogamous relationships are…

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I’m a gay man getting off on homophobic porn. Is there something wrong with me? by Dan Savage I am a twenty-five-year-old ga…

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What are the chances our threesome partner got me pregnant? By Dan Savage My sexy GGG husband and I fuck a “good friend&rdqu…

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My boyfriend cheated on me with a much younger woman. How can I believe him when he says he's still attracted to me? By Dan Sa…

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My husband gave me the go-ahead to get together with an old flame. What should I do? By Dan Savage I’m a happily married wom…

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My body can't keep up with my boyfriend's libido. I'm a twenty-one-year-old woman from Canada who sleeps with other wo…

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I placed a kinky Craigslist ad, and one of my coworkers answered it. By Dan Savage I’m twenty-six, straight, and male. I con…

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