PERSONAL ESSAYS


The Viagra Monologues by Steven Brykman          



My doctor knows what I am after, what every man for the past two years has been after. I describe the symptoms. It might be nothing at all. A concern more than anything, maybe general anxiety. Or poor overall circulation: cold feet, my hands pins and needles on non-stop flights. Nervousness perhaps, a preoccupation with my reduced-to-part-time employment status. We are experiencing cutbacks. So, in turn, is my penis. My doctor looks over my chart, gives me a blood test and offers me a few free samples of Viagra to take home.


    

My physician smiles proudly as he launches into his spiel, "Oh, I took it! It worked all right, but I got all the side effects: nausea, headache, blue vision." Blue vision: the side effect you rarely hear about. I don't ask him for any more information.




For approximately three weeks, the sample boxes sit unopened in my cabinet. The sex has not been bad (at least from my standpoint), though the odds of my writing home about it are small. Several times my penis has become fatigued, my mind distracted with financial concern and self-doubt — just this morning, in fact. While reaching into the night table for the condoms, I felt myself losing grasp, a subtle deflation.


    

That night, my girlfriend Raegan springs it on me. "Let's try the Viagra."


    

Let me make one thing perfectly clear. Multiplicity was never my strong suit. In my college years I may have gone as many as three rounds, under extraordinary circumstances or with the assistance of mild hallucinogens. But as a general rule, once is the frequency with which I am most comfortable.


    

This summary contains important information about VIAGRA®. Read this information carefully before you start taking VIAGRA®. VIAGRA® is not for everyone. It is intended only for use by men who have a condition called erectile dysfunction.


    

A C.E.O. friend of mine has just begun taking the stuff in order to maintain his busy schedule of balling Mediterranean strippers and barely-legals. He describes his own Viagra experiences in sports metaphors like: "Swinging a different bat" and "From a mudder to a stud" and "Seventh inning stretch." He laughs knowingly when I ask him what that means.


    

Take VIAGRA® about one hour before you plan to have sex.


    

I mark the time, swallow a pill and turn on the television.


    

Beginning in about thirty minutes and for up to four hours, VIAGRA® can help you get an erection if you are sexually excited. You will not get an erection just by taking this medicine. VIAGRA® helps a man with erectile dysfunction get an erection only when he is sexually excited.


    

So far nothing. An old Colombo is on.


    

"What if nothing happens?"


    

"Relax. Have a glass of wine." Raegan says.


    

If you take VIAGRA® with any nitrate medicine or recreational drug containing nitrates, your blood pressure could suddenly drop to an unsafe or life threatening level. You could get dizzy, faint, or even have a heart attack or stroke.


    

"Honey? I think I'll skip the wine."


    

It is now one hour later and I am feeling nothing except neurosis. I realize that there is one glaring omission from the list of "Possible Side Effects": sudden gripping panic.


    

If you have chest pains, dizziness or nausea during sex, stop and immediately tell your doctor. Heart attack, stroke, irregular heartbeats, and death have been reported rarely in men taking VIAGRA®.


    

Still nothing. My worst fear is coming true: maybe even Viagra cannot help me. I think back to the cyst I had excised from my sacrum in my senior year of college. Mid-surgery, half-drugged, I reached back to illustrate my answer to the doctor's question. "Don't move!" He shouted. Now it hits me. He cut a nerve; maybe just halfway, just nicked it at the time, and now it's completely severed, like an elevator cable that lets go one wire at a time. There will be no more erections. I resign myself to a life of exclusively cerebral pursuits.


    

To talk myself down, I repeat this mantra: "You will not get an erection just by taking this medicine."


    

I move to the bedroom. "Eleven o'clock, Raegan. One hour."


    

She's in the bathroom, doing something unnecessary.


    

"Okay."


    

"One hour, sweetie."


    

"I said, 'okay!'"


    

You will not get an erection just by taking this medicine. I touch myself briefly and experience a near-immediate positive response.


    

In rare instances, men have reported an erection that lasts many hours.


    

"Honey!"


    

"You're being annoying."


    

"One hour, hon."


    

"If you keep this up, I won't have sex with you at all."


    

"If I keep this up, you better have sex with me."


    

"You're gross. I think that stuff stiffened your brain."


    

"No, look. Check it out."


    

"Oh, just take care of yourself. I'm not in the mood."


    

I am unclear what part of the female psyche asks a man to score some Viagra, suggests a night for him to take it, documents the pill-swallow in pictures, but then threatens not to have sex with him an hour later when he is frantically stripping down.


    

During sex, your heart works harder.


    

Thanks in part to a merciful God and twenty minutes of tantric shiatsu foreplay with a miniature fingertip vibrator, Raegan is back in the mood. As is my own genitalia (and, might I add, completely of its own accord).


    

"Can you get me some water?" she asks, brusquely.


    

Incredulous but obliging, I pull back the covers, head into the kitchen, clean a glass, fill it with water and re-enter the bedroom. I have not been thinking about my penis. Nevertheless, my erection is unfazed. There is, essentially, a lock on the penis door: a one-way valve. My erection is its own independent entity.


    

I dim the lights, light some candles. We quench our thirsts. The lovemaking begins. Almost immediately, I notice a vaguely unpleasant tightening in my groin just beneath my testes. Independent of my direction, muscles I was not even aware existed are being called to action.


    

Call a doctor at once if you ever have an erection that lasts more than four hours. If not treated right away, permanent damage to your penis could occur.


    

Something is radically different. First off, my erection is noticeably bigger than normal. Capillaries that have not seen the light of day since sophomore year are suddenly popping open — the battered levees breached by the cresting Mississippi. My penis is now so enlarged, I can feel the skin tightening in my face. I have become a threat to small Iowa towns. I enter Raegan and she, too, feels different. I'm exploring new ridges, ransacking vistas, lighting out for uncharted territory. Seventh-inning stretch. Bluntly put, I am fucking another woman's vagina with somebody else's penis.


    

But here's the problem. There's no arc, no complication of plot, no rise and denouement. Despite my stamina, it's a strictly two-note song: in and out.


    

I can tell my girlfriend is unimpressed. The sex lacks panache, and I know it. My style is all out of whack. Where is the attentive romantic, the sensitive novelist? I try to concentrate for a moment, find my center, attend to Raegan's needs. She orgasms but I'm not even close. Right now I'm a porn star, a pounder. I've got the jackhammer, and damn it, I'm going to drill.


    

Twenty minutes later, I'm still going strong so decide to talk myself into climaxing. Come on, Raegan's half-asleep. What are you waiting for? A notarized request? Ready? On three.


    

After a sub-par orgasm, the erection abates normally, but I'm left with a lingering dissatisfaction, a desire to go at it again, as if to improve my standing among my fraternity brethren. And to top it off I'm not even sleepy.


    

"So what'd you think?" I ask timidly.


    

She looks over at me. "I like you the regular way."


    

The greatest compliment ever given a man.



©2001
Steven Brykman and Nerve.com

Commentarium (59 Comments)

Jul 05 01 - 10:52am
ns

I liked it. I've been wondering about Viagra. Wondering if my partner takes it occasionally.

Jul 05 01 - 2:49pm
pc

The article is representative of one man's experience with viagra. It's important for educated little nervers to understand viagra inhibits the production of an enzyme in the brain that causes males to "go refractory" That is all it does. The initial propaganda that went out about the pill not doing anything for those that don't have E.D. was just that, propaganda. If you have no E.D., and take this pill, you are a god. Period. You can fuck like an eighteen year old again. By that, I mean multiple orgasms, and all the sex you have the stamina for. I personally started using it from time to time when I had partied too hard, and wanted to have some fun. Isn't it funny that all the things men use to get a woman in bed (money, cocaine, xtc, alcohol) all are erection killers? This is one of the best drugs to come on the market in a long time. It should be available without a prescription. As for my own personal experience, I like to take the hundred milligram tablets. It does not take an hour to hit either. Within fifteen minutes, I get a comfortable, warm feeling, and then bright white lights do take on a bluish tint, like xenon headlights. If you take a hundred, say on sat night at about ten, you can go on and have great responsiveness for an entire 24 hour period. And the best part is, it is so controllable.

Jul 05 01 - 3:28pm
EJ

Pfizer will NOT be sending you any thank you cards!
:-)

Jul 05 01 - 4:33pm

DUKASSETTE
POPS

Jul 05 01 - 6:49pm
dl

heehee

Jul 05 01 - 7:43pm
tw

What a scream of a piece! It sounds like i had a better time reading it that you did living it.
I have never taken Viagra before but this review has entice me to give it a wirl.

Jul 06 01 - 11:54am
DC

For those of us who suffer from Erectile Dysfunction, Viagra is a godsend. When I finally saw a urologist specializing in male sexual function in 96, after several other visits to my regular physicians - one told me to join AA (he had just gotten sober himself) and that my penis knew that my wife had cheated on me and one prescribed yohambine, which didn't work for me; the current best option was an injection with a needle directly into the penis. Not fun but I learned to do it. Then came the suppository - a capsule the size of a grain of rice that you deposited inside your urethra. Ouch. But better than the injections, even if slightly less effective. I do get the "color tinged vision", sometimes severe sinus headaches the next day (have always had sinus problems), and sometimes it just doesn't work (too tired, too much to drink). I have also had women tell me that it just wasn't the same because they didn't make me hard, a little pill did. I tried to explain that I could be with Sandra Bullock and the result would be the same. That, and I have only been able to make love with women that I truly cared deeply about my whole life anyway but some weren't convinced. Life still isn't great but it certainly got a lot better when my little blue friend showed up. To anyone out there who is experiencing erection problems, go see a qualified doctor right away. They see dozens of people (was tempted to say "penises" ;) every day, and do their best to make it a "comfortable" process. Good luck and God bless. -Dante

Jul 06 01 - 3:35pm
DZ

Whee!!

A joyride of social commentary, brilliantly and poignantly capturing the pathos of our ethos.

Jul 06 01 - 8:13pm
JGL

You may want to give Viagra another try. As a fifty year old male, it has been my savior. Low performance due to blood pressure medication, was driving me to drink, but this little blue pill has made me into my old self again. Strong erections that last, are just what my wife wants and needs, and once again I can give it to her, long and hard. Try to get over the holistic crap and just fuck the hell out of your lover and wait for the applause. Stop thinking so much and start fucking!!!

Jul 09 01 - 12:03am
bob

Cool, accurately reported. even when I have scored some , I don't always use it.

Jul 09 01 - 12:23pm
CR

Read this.

Jul 12 01 - 10:46am
ms

Great article. Well-written without getting overly specific. Besides, we all know what you're talking about.

Jul 20 01 - 6:09pm
PW

Look at this essay about using Viagra. It's cute.

Thinking of you.

XO-PW

Jul 29 01 - 4:47am
NG

I hadn't realized how much I'd missed the hardness until he got it back with the help of the little blue pill.

Mmhmmmm, wonderful to have all those deep places plundered again.

Hope there's a special place in heaven for the inventor(s), they've surely caused this wench to smile hugely again.

Sep 02 01 - 12:28pm
kmb

This is a good article, in the sense that for the first time I've gotten outside support (other than from you, dear) for passing on the wonder drug -- perhaps no matter how old I get.

Sep 05 01 - 12:31pm
GA

The V pill is the latest cool drug on campus. A young friend of mine who's a grad-student took it (he popped 2 of them). Said his johnson was erect all nite long, hurt like hell, turned purple, swelled up and he wanted to die. He pumped away till he couldnt pump anymore and his girlfriend pushed him off of her and said it turned him into some kind of freak a zoid, and refuses to do the nasty with him anymore. If you ask him if Viagra changed his life... he'll tell you not to take it.

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