As a boyfriend of a female ejaculator, I can say that it is very exciting. At first it was a tiny bit weird. Only because I had never heard of it. It was a new sensation to be soaked during sex. But she warned me ahead of time. Now I look forward to her gushing. It allows me to feel when she has an orgasm. This is a big turn on. Also, if I wait to cum when she does, we both feel each other's juices. Romantic isn't it?
Thanks for the article
--vw
02/08 |
urethra i found it!
i am 24 years old and never had an O. it was the same with me, i always felt like i was almost there and suddenly it feels like i have to pee real bad. i never gave into the feeling cause i didn't want to piss all over him although he said he doen't care (freaky...).
so is this what i have been waiting for? do i finally give in an nut all over him just like he does me?
hell yes!
i'll let you guys know how it works out.
great article, thanks
--qg
01/20 |
Funny, smart, erotic, very well done. I'm dyin over here.
I am a self proclaimed expert on the G spot (ahem), but have yet to see or feel a woman "spurt"
I sure do want to though. :)
Cheers and love, Matt
--MEM
12/05 |
In my 20 years of sexual activity (with a partner) I have had only one who ejaculated routinely. She was highly charged sexually, enjoyed a good fuck in a way often associated with men, and was one of my greatest partners and sexiest women (with or without the ejaculation) I have ever met.
What seems clear is that, while this thrilled me, I had little to do with it. It simply was in her nature.
--ar
12/03 |
Wow! What a great article. Having been there and done that I can assure that it's not urine. The taste and the smell (extremely erotic) are in a class by themselves. Going down on my ejaculating partner became the most exciting foreplay that the both of us could come up with. Unfortunately, the relationship ended several years ago (due to other circumstances) and I'm only left with the great memories. Nothing that great before or since>
--wv
12/03 |
I almost always ejaculate when I come, especially when my partner is well, talented--which includes myself, incidentally. Thanks so much for an article long overdue. I must say though, that while I notice my "wet" orgasms tend to be more intense (though not painful, I might add) it is a little annoying to deal with the aftermath--a towel just doesn't contain it for me.
--KAM
12/01 |
that was really thoughtful and eyeopening. thank you.
--ak
11/30 |
Thank you, thank you, thank you for the wonderfully written article on female "spurting." I have long questioned why it was that I had never heard anything whatsoever about female ejaculation, when in fact I often end up watering my partner after I orgasm. My ex and I actually had a name for it... "pop"... puddle of pleasure. It's strange but it only happens when I'm on top with my partner AND when I'm alone with Mr. Vibes, my always consistent magic wand. I have to actually lay out a towell before I go at it with my vibrator and once I start, I can have as many as I want, in a row, and they all end in me "spurting" my love juice... I do love myself after all!
So thanks for, well, acknowledging that women too can release juices as a result of the big "O."
--JMB
11/29 |
Yay G-Spot... Next, on to the butt - The G-superhighway!
--MAN
11/29 |
I myself believe that female ejaculation is quite an experiece. However, I had no idea that not everyone was having these experiences. Every time I pleasure myself and have an extremely intense orgasm (clitoral), I ejaculate. Oh sure, it took me years to find out what exactly was going on and that I wasn't peeing on myself, but I can make it happen any time I want. No G Spot necessary. All I need is some intense non-stop clitoral stimulation (a shower massager usually does the trick) and it's on.
However, I do agree that it is a feeling of almost pain. I don't do it for the ejacualtion though, just the orgasm. I've only achieved this once with a partner. Got to keep on trying.
--BG
01/21 |
I have orgasms in more than two ways. I have even had them over the phone, just from the power of my mind. I am also an ejaculator. I looked up this information to pass on to my partner from last night. He had never been with a woman that squirts and assumed that I had wet myself. I had about 50 orgasms during our four hour session (he is the only man I know that can do that)and during that time I had several ejaculations and completely soaked a whole bed. The biggest surprise ... at least two of them were during anal sex. We have found only in each other this height of sexuality, most people think we are lying. Are their more of us out there?
--st
01/05 |
Read me
--FYI
12/26 |
I've ejaculated several times, but I'm always afraid I'll short out the vibrator -or worse- and have a very embarressed husband explaining to his relatives how his wife died.
As for Rayner Garner- what a load of horseshit he's selling. And he even has a copyright for it!
--ab
10/31 |
i thought you might find this interesting! i love you!
--d.h.
10/27 |
This is an immensely helpful article.
The G-spot and female ejaculation have been such mythic phenomena, maybe Nerve should do a series. Debunk the myth.
--BD
10/27 |
Marie, I thought fondly of you :-)
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10/26 |
We have found that women who ejaculate are in a "male identification". (Go to http://www.wco.com/~popinjay and read about De-Identification Processing for more information.) Once they release this identification they cease to ejaculate.
If you would like more information on this we shall be happy to send it to you.
In case you are interested in the research work we do we are adding a recent article on multiple male orgasms.
Best wishes,
Rayner Garner D.O The Nurturing Center
THE MALE MULTIPLE ORGASM
I was puzzled why some women could have long, full bodied multiple orgasms whereas most men including myself didn't seem to be able to have them. Of course this was from reading the literature on the subject and from asking my friends. Both women and men. I was quite startled to find that some women would also ejaculate several times, with no refractory period required. Why couldn't men do that too?
Then I met a young woman who was Tahitian. With her I was able to have the most intense, full bodied orgasms that I had sometimes witnessed some of my female lovers having. I also found myself retaining an erection once I had come and having a series of ejaculations which I had never experienced before.
A few years later I went to the Pacific Islands to study this phenomenon. While there I also experienced several threesomes with non-Polynesians and found that again I became multiorgasmic with frequent ejaculations. It was quite common in some of the Pacific Island communities for men to be multiorgasmic. Of course they had more time and energy available than their Caucasian counterparts to devote to lovemaking.
I think that the key to this puzzle is quite simple. Usually most men tend to give a great deal of sexual energy to their lovers in cultures such as ours. This is the norm. Whereas most women in this culture are not encouraged to freely flow sexual energy. This quite natural ability is damped down for sensible reasons. There are too many frustrated predators around for it to be safe for a young woman to retain this ability. In addition any woman that openly enjoys sex is viewed with hostility and suspicion.
Not so for men. We are expected to have and enjoy sexual activity or are not shamed if we are satyrs. Any young woman who proclaimed herself as a good lover and who was horny and wanted sex often would be labelled promiscuous and a slut.
Not so in some of the Pacific Islands, although this attitude is fast disappearing as the need for production and consumption is paramount. Sexually satisfied people are not terribly motivated to produce and consume in excess of their need just to make someone else rich!
So either a overtly sexually flowing woman, or a woman who had become more aroused than usual by making love with another partner, would, with their combined energy, provide enough intense and continuing energy to fully satisfy a male.
Most women that I discuss this with nearly always stop when their male partner comes. Something which does not happen when the male is making love to a woman. The reasons for women halting their efforts are understandable. Usually most men do not seem to have the energy or ability to continue. This however is due to a misunderstanding of the potential of a male's potency. If a man stopped his efforts and sexual energy flow at his beloved's first orgasm it is unlikely that unless she masturbated she would be capable of multiple orgasms without his energy.
If at the first orgasm, and ejaculation of a woman's lover, she continued flowing her sexual energy and attention it is most likely her lover could continue for much longer than usual and be capable of multiple orgasms. Certainly if she had a companion who also added her energy and sexual attention most males who are healthy have the same sexual capacity that a woman has.
Obviously I am broadly generalising, and also have not gone into more detail on why some other cultures allow women to be overtly sexual whereas ours do not. Your comments are welcome.
Copyright 2000 Rayner Garner
All rights reserved
Tel: (707) 887-8158 Email: intuit@ncal.verio.com
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--RG
10/22 |
I'm a squirter, and it is definitely connected to the g-spot for me. I can have a g-spot orgasm without squirting also. Clitoral orgasms are local and short lived, while g-spot orgasms envelope my entire entity, last much longer and I lose conscious control of all muscular function (tending to flail about)...that is partially how I would describe the difference.
--imz
10/20 |
I always try for the fine line between pleasure and pain and now I know why.
thank you
--lp
10/18 |
This is what you do sometimes!!! We need to play and practice more..
--Tig
10/16 |
i agree with all you say and hope you get other women to open up and enjoy their body.i love it when that squirt covers my cock and the wetness lets me enter with ease and the woman is in another world from the feeling in her body
--eqs
10/14 |
hi you
just thought it might be fun to try.
love you
B
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10/10 |
isn't this great???
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10/10 |
It's fucking piss!
--RPM
10/10 |
Finally! Liza Featherstone has offered the only sane info about female ejaculation out there! Yes, the Good Vibrations lit is fabulous, but Featherstone here gives us a thought-provoking history and a critique of those contemporary G-spot moralisms that make even the most avid sex-students feel inept. I, like Featherstone, have ejaculated once, years ago, and have been confused about why I hadn't done it since. I watched Fatale's video, and was totally turned off. These women were so mechanical, so show-offy, and the whole deal was, in its attempt to be "demystifying", completely unsexy. I had no desire to see any of these women come. Featherstone's description of her own explorations of her g-spot in relation to the urethra, taking cues from the "need to pee" sensation, is practical, helpful and encouraging. I hope she writes about this more often, because this issue is still grossly misunderstood, and the misunderstandings, whether they be shame-inducing or hyper-expectant, don't help anyone expand their realm of pleasures. What a treat to have Featherstone on this topic!
--BAS
10/09 |
wow. this is an entirely new addition to the avenues of "traditional" thought for me. i have witnessed this on video maybe once or twice but always thought it to be extremely rare. to think that it could be less rare of even "common" and attainable really wracks my brain.
--kg
10/09 |
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