So this woman gets paid to go on 2hr dates. Can you say scam artist.
--BW
03/19 |
As someone who knows both sides of the coin I can tell you that this is only partially true.
The advice and tips given by people such as Neil Strauss and Mystery serve only and I do mean ONLY to create attraction and create it fast. Anything that you choose to do after that is your business.
The guys on that show or who read that book have no clue how to even approach women. They don't get asked out on dates or ask others out on dates due to their own personal insecurities. Insecurities which Mystery helps them overcome.
Actual dates are a completely different situation. Those require a different set of skills and put you in a different setting. At that point, you know the other person is attracted to you, otherwise they would not have agreed to go on the date. Thus, actual conversation skills are required. At that point, yes, it is necessary to chill out and just be yourself.
But as far as initially attracting a woman, "just being yourself" is a go to phrase that people say when they have no better advice to give.
--GG
02/21 |
Cognitive psychology. Dating. Do the insecurities ever arise during initial contacts with clients about why they are contacting you? Like the old fella in the video store...they're for a friend! What? Why! I can relate to "the pause" aspect of conversation. Definietlydetermines alot I would think. I feel like an ass bringing this up being I'm assuming yer clinical, butt, my ego told me that structured dating leads to bad sex.
--MC
02/19 |
Is that the whole interview? If your intro talks about how two television shows provide no practical information, I expect the interview to go beyond the first day of psych 101. Give us some insight.
--JA
02/19 |
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