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I met some csers,and I had sex with one guy called Mike from America,and it was quite shame.Mike and I went to the city next to mine to meet another cser,I planned to catch the last train and go home that night and Mike was going to stay at that CSer's couch.But they asked me to go to Karaoke(I live in Japan),so I missed the last train.so me and Mike both stay at that guy's home.He gave us fudon,and three of us slept together.Then here came a problem as I was the only girl.Actually the best way was i sleep in the middle.But it was my first time to meet that guy,Mike and I met the day before but hadn't had sex before that night.So I insisted on sleeping next to Mike and on the side.But That guy took Mike's place while Mike went to the toilet,and after Mike came back,he turned off the light soon and started to touch me...
Sorry,seems too long,jumping to the end,I had sex with Mike at that guy's house,I didn't have sex with that guy.But nothing more happened between me and Mike,he was just a traveller here in Japan,and he's got a gf at home,so do I.the only thing happened between us was just one night stand.It's quite sad tho.
--AO
10/12 |
Very well written essay I must say. Although as a member of couchsurfing.com I do feel a little torn by it. Yes hook-ups do of course happen but it is not such a common occurrence like the article make it sound. However the autor did alsomention it many times that the site is absolutly not a dating sait.
Couchsurfing.com is for open-minded, generous and loving people who wants to help each other and themselves to explore and experience the world and different cultures.. and of course when people with similar interests meet, love and sex happens just like in for example bridge or motorbike clubs..
I think the autor did mention this quite clearly I just wanted to add that there is a big difference between joining to try to find someone to date, which is "wrongfull
use", and to date someone that you met on CS, which is ok, since that is just "love happening on the way" and could happen anyplace..
Well that is my experience and opinion, others might disagree, but that is what makes things good, not everyone thinks the same, but for the most parts respect and accept others thoughts.
Happy traveling/surfing!
Tomas
--TH
08/05 |
great piece. curious to know if it has affected traffic to those sites.
--stj
12/19 |
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