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You're a closet homosexual.
--NM
08/31 |
This article is proof enough that western males have totally forgotten to be men. They are plain and simply queers.
A queer is a male with a feminine gender. Men who are uncomfortable with other men, physically, socially or emotionally but merge with the women like they are one of them, have a strong queer self to them. They call it heterosexual orientation, and its totally contrary to the essence of manhood, yet, in the west, they rule over the straight identity.
The real men never have a heterosexual orientation, they may want to fuck women, (although, for masculine gendered males, licking vagina would be the last thing they'd do!), but they will never be seen dead holding hands with one, or to have mushy relationships with them.
And real straight men have a natural openness to masculine beauty and male body. That's just an integral part of being naturally 'man', as opposite to being naturally 'queer'.
Straight is not really about being 'heterosexual'. Straight males are just forced to be heterosexuals because of social pressures in the west.
In the non-west, we're not heterosexual or homosexual, we're just men. And the opposite of men are the 'third genders' who are half-males and half-females. And its the third genders or queers who are really comfortable with women, in every respect, socially, physically and emotionally.
Western homosexuals are mostly third genders, wrongly defined as 'men' (who like men). In reality, homophobes and homosexuals are both queers. The real men, unfortunately, have to hide their need for intimacy with men, and pretend they get turned off by male body or intimacy. But this 'phobia' is as unreal as western 'heterosexual' orientation.
Manhood is not about heterosexuality. It's only about procreating. Any further interest in women is queer.
--NM
08/31 |
This author comes across as extremely ignorant. A couple of points to consider. He watched little boys play the game of kabaddi and made remarks as to how the game was unremarkable and how they used "sissy" slaps. Try coming to a real tournament with grown-ups. As a matter of fact, jump in one of the tournaments so I can see you get your ass kicked. Instead of talking crap, you should have jumped in and actually tried playing the game with grown men so that you could actually appreciate how tough it is. It "looks" easy, but is not. How do I know? I'm white and an accomplished wrestler. I learned about the game from a punjabi-american fellow wrestler/friend. I tried to play the game and got my ass handed to me at first, until I learnt the basics of it. I realized that it actually takes skill and is tough. But then again, I played with men not little boys.
--j.d.
04/19 |
Bakersfield, California isn't a "small, farming town." Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe there are about 250,000 people living in the city, according to the last census.
--BL
04/11 |
"Unapologetically erotic?" I'm so glad Edward Said's not around to see this... That being said, one of the guys my college karate club was from India. I liked being his partner in drills because he smelled like cardamom. The only downside was I'd always have to go make myself curry after class.
--KenM
04/10 |
It's so lame and lazy that all the author has to say about this sport, and apparently any sport with contact between men is that it "looks gay". It says so much more about the author's own hangups than it does about the sport. So, thanks for this great article about how you're uncomfortable with yourself.
--WL
04/10 |
Nice try on the article. Has this author ever left the States before, or even gone to Europe? Sexual norms are absolutely culturally bound.
In Asia, it's true that homosexuality is generally not discussed and viewed negatively--in theory. In Thailand, I could not tell who was gay, straight, bi-, or just friendly. Even little boys holding hands without any double takes, and I hung out with "lady-boys" who walked around freely. I met a missionary in a hostel, however, who immediately launched into how evil and overly sexual this culture was. I truly hope types like him don't spread their Puritanical, Western-centric neuroticisms into such lovely cultures as Thailand.
People just need to get over CARING about who's what. It'll be nice when people just stop entertaining that kind of nonsense and allow the speculation to die out. After that, maybe people will focus on more relevant things, like...I don't know, the actual GAME of kabaddi? And by the way, I have a friend (female) who played it in university in Japan. She didn't see anything overly sexual about it, either.
[Side note: Sure, homosexuality may be illegal in India. But I've yet to encounter the sheer aggression, anger and hatred that seems to erupt from Westerners (particularly males) whenever discussing homosexuality. At least there's less threat of being lynched in Asia if you're gay. Where is all this hatred and anger coming from? Religion? The Abrahamic (Judeo-Christian/Muslim) religions have totally fucked up the world.]
--GOB
04/10 |
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