i've never been one for conventional looks, thinking i should be attracted even though they left me cold. my last very long term relationship was with a very attractive man who never did it for me, but i think he specifically sucked in bed. ah, but the freaks. i decided that the reason sex could be so good was because i wasn't concerned about giving so much as getting good sex. that big sex organ in your head can screw you up good. coincidentally, i just resolved to look for a better quality partner, but ya know, there is something to be said for that hard working worshipful lust of the nonconventional looking lover. (possibly, just to throw it out, better looking people don't have to try so hard to get laid, so the diminished skill level persists...)
--AW
11/14 |
this made so much sense to me, it was a little scary. i just recently discovered the super highway could be productive for more than just ftp sites and nagging from my mother. it's an insomniac's dream.
--tk
11/13 |
I read the article with much interest. My experience with someone who was not exactly what you'd call ideal, but rather homely. But "Wow", could she get me off. Ske liked everything kinky , anal, oral and otherwise. Her appitite for sex was insatiable.
--JP
11/10 |
ok, need to clarify. In my last feedback I wrote 'surprising'. I don't mean that the subject was surprising (that's annoying), but instead meant that the writing itself was so colorful and imaginitive that it was a joy to read, like exploring an unknown coastline and not knowing what comes next. Ok, that's what I meant.
--bird
11/08 |
I absolutely died laughing. I never read anything so entirely colorful and surprising. I've put her two books in my wish list on Amazon so I can read more! Brilliant, absolutely brilliant writing!
--bird
11/08 |
Well...I was actually surprised by this article. It was veryinteresting to see that this sort of "thing" is not unusual. Well actually..in some way I can realte with the girl. I mean I don't go out and do it with people I find repulsive, but I have imagined having sex with people who were not, in my opinion, to my liking....but overall....it was pretty cool to see that I wasn't the only one doing this, but then again I never really thought that I WAS the only one...I'm sure that there were/are others out there like this.
--VV
11/02 |
since when does "large" equal "repulsive"? try and illustrate some more next time. seriously: please do try. friends whose opinions I hold high had told me how good this column was; I read it and didn´t like the smell on it (troubled, loose, good-looking girl prejudice and so on) though the writing´s smooth... hey, prejudice we can all deal with, but when it comes to reading I won´t compromise: I need to believe you, or want to, or some of many other things I can think of. Your writing just doesn´t quite work for me I guess, and I can´t help thinking it´s because of its various, easily identifiable flaws. I can see what my friends saw in your column, but I can also see beyond that. Please work on it!
Lisa
troubled, loose, good-looking, unprejudiced (in a reverse-snob sort of way, even) small girl
--lm
11/01 |
Okay------------this story was kinda crazy, but to each his own. I think we all go thru weird phases, traced to something sexually weird that may have happened in our childhood. For me, i am currently only attracted to white men in their late forties. Salt and pepper gray just sends me reeling! Why, when i am a gorgeous African-American woman would i want someone who is the utter opposite of me. My current love interest is short and not handsome, but he talks so dirty to me, i can't get enough of him.
I think it has something to do with an incident when i was about 8 or 9 yrs old. An old caucasian man sat in the alley behind our house one morning (a bum). As i took the trash out, i walked up on him before i realized it. I stared at him and i think he asked me if i wanted to see something, at which time he opened the dirty coat he was wearing, to reveal a very hairy cock.
This has somehow contributed to my current psychosis, i'm sure of it.......lol
--lj
10/17 |
Wow--that was profound. I don't know what to say. Haven't quite experience this type of experience, but thanks so much for sharing. Really.
--kmb
10/06 |
i suddenly feel normal...altho the repulsion comes with submission for me...and all its delusions of grandeur...and love...and belonging...and of course, the arrogant wanker i'm having sex with...
we are strange individuals arent we?
--cuch
10/03 |
Good Story Really enjoyed it keep it up!
--RE
10/03 |
What a great article. Even as a guy we've had those. Keep up the great articles.
--CW
10/02 |
At first I was grossed out by this story, thinking that's not me. But after reading the feedback & thinking on it somemore, I realize that I'm currently in a repulsive relationship and it's not uncommon for me to cum so hard & so often during sex with this guy, that I can't keep count. And no - it's not about his girth, he's actually impotent. He brings out the animal in me, yet this is a guy I wouldn't even have as a friend, his personality is such a turnoff. I really want out of the relationship but I think I'm addicted to the sex (what else could it be). Maybe I need Em & Lo's expert advise? Maybe I should run a personals ad?
--HELP
10/02 |
Yes!
I was with a woman for two years, hated her like the day is long, but whew! the sex was the best of my life!
We would go at it 2-4 times a day every day even when she had her peroid, just becuase I couldn't stop.
The sex was savage, the mean things she did, and said, cranked my libido!
--jjh
10/01 |
A couple of books come to mind on reading this. "The Erotic Mind" and "The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce". The first book explores what gets us off with out figuring out why and the second one may answer some of the why questions. The behaviour described is common for children of divorce, according to Judith Wallerstein. Growing out of it is too.
Peace.
--dgr
09/29 |
This story is the greatest. I read alot of shit on the Nerve and I have never laughed and agreed and understood as many things in anyother stories. I acctually clapped when I was done. Bravo
--LS
09/27 |
Hideous Kinky... Yes I fEl it sometimes.
I did undestand, the urges, the shame...
I know I am not normal. I also know that I am not sick because I readed it and got it.
D main thing is: if it fEls good, and U do not hurt anybody (that does not what 2 B hurt), enjoy it.
Life is 2 short, 4 long explanations.
GUd work girl.
ĉlx nexus
--ĉlx
09/27 |
I'd just like to say that that was one of the best articles I've ever read on the website, and I enjoyed it THOUROUGHLY...I went through a faze of that my sophomore and junior year in college, and after reading that, I know there's more than just one of us out there!
That was RAD!
dionysis24
--PAW
09/26 |
After reading this, I suddenly realized what has been wrong with all my relationships. "I was too smitten to come." I feel so relieved. Actually, as soon as I found a certain ex completely unattractive I had no problem coming at all when we suddenly had a short lived rendezvous. It was great. Hopefully with this new gained knowledge I might be able to come with someone I do find attractive.
--DR
09/26 |
Ha! It was for sure entertaining! A really good lunch break reading.
--AN
09/26 |
hmmmm maybe you had great sex with these guys because they both had thick ones LOL .... you know what they say "length is a strength but girth makes mirth"!
--EGM
09/26 |
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