one thing is true the internet is a wonderful information sharing device. yes you are no longer unknown with all the spying out there you will eventually end up on the internet. as far as blogs go when you are a the sales business and you rip people off do expect that you will be exposed and others warned. that person will let everyone else know what your about. you are not a private stripper if you are working in public bars. they are opened to the public and what happens in there is open to the public including you. i met a man in a blog on the net who says he is collecting videos and pictures of strippers, escorts, college girls etc. and he is planning on opening a directory to expose you all to the world. the no touching no longer exists. that is why your allowed to do lap dances and table dances. strippers like to make the public think that they can not touch you only you can touch them. when you sexually agree to physical sexual forplay with some you are consenting to that activity are you not? (this may not include penitration). besides the person has paid for you already when they bought their drink or paid a cover charge or paid for a private session and by the very nature of your job you have concented to sexual activity with the person in that bare already. I know you would like to think that this is a one way street for you but times a changing. lap dancing is dry fu..king (this is paid for by the customer to the stripper) and the customer if male wears a condom inside his pants. you grid your vigina on his covered penis and he ejaculate (physical sex) or when you rub your bare breasts and your naked body on the customer (in some cases allowing the person to touch and suck your naked body)you kiss and fondel the customers body including his private areas to arouse him sexually (sounds like a sex manual i read once explaining forplay and fu...king) to get him aroused or he ejuculates. do you think that because the person is clothed some how this makes it not sex. there are many different forms of sex and strippers provide sex. are strippers/escorts etc. just another word for the oldest profession in the world...prostitute. sex is sex and penitration does not have to occure for there to have been sex. masterbation is sex. i do feel that if you are going to be in the sex industry and provide sex this should be done in private establishments much like the ones in Texas or Amsterdam and get this out of our bars.
--lp
09/23 |
Great interview. Very straight forward. I freakin' love someone finally discussing the ddep ambivilence that comes with being an aware human being that ends up, for whatever reason and in whichever capacity, working in the sex industry. It's simply not a cut and dry, good vs evil situation. I'd love to see more women speak this way about their experiences.
Hooray for Jo! G-strings forever!!!
--EWW
05/12 |
what is burlesque: check out jo's site http://gstringsforever.com/ or www.exoticworldusa.com or www.teaseorama.com or thenewyorkburlesquefestival.com (where you can vote jo mote likely to go into politics!)
xo
---A
05/12 |
I loved this article! It was so enlightening. And contained information which was new--such as tip-outs.
--ms
05/12 |
Great interview - interesting lady and dead-on questions. But, what is the so-called "burlesque"? I am european, and the word means something entirely different over here.
--eva
05/12 |
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