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i agree to a point yes he did call and let you know he wouldnt be there. however it sounds to me like this guy is a freak and may even be seeing another person already while trying to get you out with him as well. in other words he was probably on a date when the peckerhead called you. use your own discretion but i would advise that you either stay away from him or make it perfectly clear that you pick time and date and location and what you want to do. also i would not trust him on your first date to be alone with you. request that he does a double date with you or make damn sure a friend is with you. lots of assholes out there that would love to nail a good piece of ass and take off or even try to harm you. be careful.
--adr
11/02 |
>> Jeez, just because a girl likes 600 dollar shoes doesn't mean she's frigid. --cl
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Fair point. But it probably means she's shallow, or a moron.
----me
10/28 |
many men claim to want a "freak in the bed" but perhaps they forget that freakiness often must be inspired by the right man. get creative, share your own fantasies and desires, ask questions before dismissing your date as another fashionista frigid bitch. looks deceive all the time.
--ik
10/27 |
Jeez, just because a girl likes 600 dollar shoes doesn't mean she's frigid.
--cl
10/26 |
To the guy who thinks she's having an easy time getting over him...
She probably isn't. Putting on a brave face in public isn't that difficult that she can't do it for a little while. In movies, women who have broken up with cry, eat ice cream, sit by the beach contemplating the waves, burn old photos, get dramatic make-overs or go entirely crazy in some other super-obvious way. In the movies, you've got to show emotion in behavior.
In reality, a girl mourning a break-up often doesn't look like that. After break ups, I fill every second of my life with well-planned activities. Suddenly I'll be attending three different book clubs, taking a Thai cooking class, doing extra hours at work, ringing up old friends, organizing a charity drive and renovating my friend's bathroom. On the surface, everything's awesome. I'm efficient, busy, surrounded by people and put together. In the crevices between the mind-numbing jumble, life sometimes sucks. We can distract ourselves from that but eventually do have to process it.
Whatever your ex appears to be doing or not doing has little to do with you. Everyone has their own way to cope. It's good that you are sensitive and more openly dealing with the situation. It's an honest way to approach the situation. But don't look to your ex's reaction as a reference for what you should be going through.
Good luck! Buy yourself some ice cream?
--eb
10/26 |
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