Having sensitive nipples really does suck. Some days just leaning over my desk and catching them on the edge will give me goosebumps. Having my nipples touched when they're sensitive brings on the same reaction in my body as the sound of nails on a chalkboard.
It's better at certain times of the month or after a long period of arousal (or an orgasm). If you're big into nipples, just please stay away from me.
--mk
09/04 |
Erin, you & Dan Savage are the only advice columns I ever read. You're entertaining & smart. But straight guys can't have gay male friends? WTF? This is only an opinion, but I think that by erring on the side of gay-acceptance you missed half your answer.
--wbm
08/31 |
Yeah, ironically I find that 99% of the time "vaginal odor" is being discussed outside the scope of a yeast infection or other non-standard situation, it's women talking about their own wrongly ASSUMED vaginal odor. I've encountered it exactly ONCE in over two decades of vaginal connoisseurism, and as the other poster said, that one girl probably had a yeast infection.
Women seem to have a HUGE hangup about this, yet it is incredibly, incredibly rare in the experience of every guy I've talked to, myself included. I think this guy needs to take a look at his wife's body-image issues or self-esteem first, before we start taking for granted that there really is something for her to be ashamed of. It bugs me that people are so ready to assume that she's justified in her weird body-shame. But as Miss Info also covered -- the main thing is to explore whether she might have an emotional hangup, hormonal imbalance issue, or some other dysfunction that's killing her sex drive and making these other things all just excuses. She's probably DYING for her husband to confront her and ask what's wrong, since she apparently doesn't have the balls (literally) to speak up and discuss it.
--SG
08/30 |
Not to throw water on anything that makes you high-five, er, low-five your vagina, but don't forget that some STDs take a few months to show up in testing. So if the reason you broke up was when you found your ex in bed with Miss Practically Dripping With Disease, you can be thrilled when you test negative, but you should still be careful and get another test a few months later (ask the tester).
--JCF
08/30 |
I don't get why you would assume that that guy was cheating on his girlfriend. Even if he had strong homosexual feelings when he was dating her that doesn't mean he acted on them. Hell, straight guys generally have strong heterosexual feelings but that doesn't mean they are cheating on their girlfriends.
--BJC
08/30 |
It's summer. Girl odor exists. It's just not that big of a deal. The let's-shower-together trick is fine. You don't really need products. I wonder if you're too willing to medicate her, to buy bottles of potions to fix a problem Victoria Secret can't solve. It's easier to smear on some lotion but maybe just talking is the answer.
--emb
08/29 |
one word for you WL - capitalism.
--PT
08/29 |
What's up with this fixation on "feminine odor"? I can seriously only think of one time in my 32 years that I encountered a really off-putting odor coming from a vagina, and that was when I was 14. The poor girl probably had a yeast infection. I don't think that any of my lovers made special efforts above the normal hygiene, so I don't understand how all these products survive in the marketplace.
--WL
08/29 |
To Is My Ex Gay?: probably not gay, but I'd bet my next paycheck he's bisexual.
--KALI
08/29 |
I can't say I agree with the notion that being married to someone for 12 years means that sex should be expected to go downhill. My wife and I have been together for 12 years (married 8 years, engaged and living together before that) and the sex is now weirder and more fun than it ever has been before. This is also after 2 kids and 2 episiotomies.
Dude should get his wife reading Nerve. She'll find something that turns her on.
--JL
08/29 |
I wonder if perhaps the wife is cheating on him. Are these all just excuses for wanting less intimacy with her husband? Jus wondering.
--CSC
08/29 |
Hmmmm....so having a lot of gay friends on social networking sites is 'a pink flag' is it? I guess there's no chance that a straight guy is able form relationships with people he doesn't want to fuck, huh?
The majority of friends that I have who use Facebook or Myspace regularly tend to be female or gay (and in a large number of cases, both). This in no way effects my relationship with my girlfriend: I just find that social networking sites happen to attract people who like to gossip, bitch, flirt, make jokes etc....which includes me as a straight man. I don't necessarily believe that this guy having gay friends signifies very much.
--DM
08/29 |
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