Immediately thought of Abbeywinters.com as apparently did a load of other people. I'll join them in heartily endorsing it....normal-looking girls who actually seem to be enjoying themselves beats the pumped-up, overdressed stupidity of most mainstream porn anyday.
Also thanks for the other suggestions. I think I foresee even more internet in my spare time.....dammit.
--DM
05/04 |
These "chemistry" notions just drive me mad, and yes, especially men who make life altering decisions based on "chemistry".
I just wrapped up a 2 year relationship where both me and the guy admitted several times that for both of us it was the best sex of our lives.
There was no chemistry to begin with, I actually forced myself to go to bed with him for the first couple times to break dry spell and nothing special was happenning for the first month or so, until we both got comfortable with each other and started playing around and then proceeded playing happily for two years - I am not going to get into details, but we could have written our own sex manual. We could have gone on for another 10 or 15, but there was nothing going on outside the bedroom between us, so I've made the decision to move on.
Don't assume anything based on "chemistry". It does not exist and you don't know how well you are going to get along with the person in the bedroom until you actually get there.
--NU
05/04 |
Take a tour of abbywinters.com. It's a site with everyday girls from Australia.
--RB
05/02 |
Dear Miss Information,
Feedback on the bi-girl looking for porn: this isn't "porn" as much as erotic photos, but BlissWarrior on myspace has some very foxy, very real photos.
--BC
05/01 |
I think the bi gal would definitely love www.abbywinters.com
Their whole philosophy is natural women truly enjoying themselves and each other.
--ts
05/01 |
kink.com has some good stuff, if you want to pay for it. The performers don't look like porn stars, appear to like what their doing, and that company is supposed to be one of the best to work for. They also have a large selection of free videos and pictures.
--sqr
05/01 |
abbywinters.com gets rave reviews.
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05/01 |
Regarding good girl-on-girl porn - Unlike most hetero guys, watching two girls get it on doesn't really put the Wonka in my Willy. But I still enjoy watching the entire catalog at www.ilovepopwhore.com. Tatum Reed is the site's polestar, and she hits all the bases - girl-on-guy, girl-on-girl, three-ways, and even the occasional gang bang or fetish shoot. She's got a very genuine, girl-next-door-developed-highbrow-tastes persona, and it shows in everything from the background music to the hot Agent Provocateur lingerie. Freakin'-A, when I look at her delicate underthings, I can't decide if I want to tear them to ribbons or put them in a softly-lit display case in my living room. Anyway, she's not all girl-girl, but definitely worth a look. She has a lot of free samples on her website, but if you'd like to take a quick peak at the members site, let me know at integrateid@gmail.com and I might be able to arrange a brief lending of the necessary credentials. Rock on, E.
--AV
05/01 |
ELC,
For me, great chemistry is a pre-req to move from casually dating many women to exclusively dating one woman. Still, I agree with your point about taking your time getting to know someone. For example, being a giver, having a good attitude, and having integrity are character traits that require time to consistently observe in a potential girlfriend. The healthiest relationships I have seen are always between two people who share such traits and know how to keep the sparks flying.
--ACE
04/30 |
ACE,
What is it with you men and making decisions based on "instant chemistry"? Don't you know that whatever kind of chemistry you have instantly will probably have changed in some way in a couple months anyway?
I much prefer to get to know someone, than to make decisions based on first impressions/first lust.
Just me, a bi woman
--ELC
04/30 |
Anyone else think the "neighbor" in the first letter might be gay?
--BJC
04/30 |
http://www.abbywinters.com/portal/
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04/30 |
Sugar,
How can you be turned on to a guy who can't man up, break up with the long distance GF, and pour some sugar on you? His weak-ass behavior is pathetic and you putting up with this nonsense isn't any better. If you want an available gentleman who'll rock your world, go get one. We're out there and we don't act like this.
For example, recently I was exclusively dating Woman A. Then on a business trip, I met Woman B. Chemistry and flirting with Woman B was off the charts. Though I didn't allow anything physical to take place with Woman B, I realized that I used to have that chemistry with Woman A, should've still had that chemistry with Woman A, and didn't want to be exclusively dating Woman A without such chemistry. I came home and broke up with Woman A. Though the future with Woman B is uncertain, we men take responsibility for our actions, make decisions, take definitive action, and move forward.
No risk, no reward.
--ACE
04/30 |
Sapphic Erotica is a paid site with hot girls that don't look like porn stars. Not that I would do this, but Pirate Bay has all of the videos (and tons of other porn) free.
--STW
04/30 |
redtube.com may have girl/girl that suits your reader. Moste Erotic Teens (MET), too
--EB
04/30 |
"wax the hoo hoo"?
--LOL
04/30 |
A good site which would fullfill most of this girl's requirements is:
http://www.cam4.com/Female
Not all the girls on there are gay, but many are bi.
--GL
04/30 |
After a couple of months, the relationship usually settles into what it's going to be, and if he hasn't asked you for more than friendship by now, he isn't going to. If you're going out with other guys and he knows it, he's even less likely to. Then, five years from now, when you're getting married to someone else, he'll get really drunk and wail on about how he lost his opportunity and now it's too late. The only way out of this equilibrium is some sort of disruption now. What I suggest is that you do start going out with other guys. If you find someone better than the neighbor, great! If not, lean on the neighbor as a friend for support. As in, "Why do I always find guys who are jerks? I wish I could find someone available just like you!" If he doesn't go for that one, give up.
--JCF
04/30 |
I like Bella Donna for girl on girl. Also try pure TnA for free porn.
--LE
04/30 |
Check out Violet Blues Blog for more info, she's chock full of usefull information in that regard, at http://www.tinynibbles.com/. I also like Eon McKai's stuff, It's not just girl on girl but the look is neat. Also don't forget Tristan Taormino's work for people who really enjoy what they're doing on film.
And you're right, Erin, that's worth paying for, think of it like buying organic groceries :)
--n
04/30 |
Great advice for the first letter for one date-to-three hangouts ratio, should apply to any relationships and pseudo-relationships that do not look like they are going anywhere, but you keep seeing the guy anyway. I am monogamous by nature and tend to get stuck on "40 percent good" men myself and end up on "men-improvement" route - you don't want to be there! Setting a rule like that helps.
--NU
04/30 |
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