You mentioned dirty Scrabble. Do you have rules for this that you would share?
--MLS
07/14 |
PO, you're such a f*ing jerk! (You stole the point I was going to make) The fat girl like a moped statement was funny, BZ. Reminds me of a fat girl I was having fun with a while back. Very nice, pretty, and super fat. She was fun for a while. I've also dumped girls for getting fat, and for not wanting to work out and be active. It's about values, and being fit and healthy is most definitely a "value". If someone doesn't share most of your values, especially if it's at the core, then your relationship will be short-lived. I'm sure many readers here can't understand health, fitness, and being physically active as core values, but they are just as important as anything you believe.
PS Energy Stored (fat) = Energy In (food) - Energy Used (activity)
==> simple physics.
--spif
07/07 |
I don't think LM would post such humbling stats about herself if she were lying.
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07/06 |
LM - And no one cares. This is not about you.
--BZ
07/04 |
LM,
no one believes you are 250 lbs 5'6" and fit.
--DE
07/04 |
Hi there. I'm a female who weighs 250 pounds, I'm 5'6", and I fucking love the outdoors. I love kayaking, I enjoy a good hike, I bike everywhere. I've been fat most of my life, because in my teen years, I got put on antidepressants that screwed up my metabolism and I gained 100 pounds. Since I've been off them (4 years,) I've been eating small, healthy portions and exercising every day, but my weight hasn't budged. My doctor is confused, I'm confused, but more than anything, I hate being a fit fat person who has to deal with people judging me at first sight. I can't remember the last time I ate Nutella, ice cream, or anything junk food. My dessert is usually raspberries. But people look at me and assume I sit on my ass all day eating bonbons, and that pisses me off to no end.
--LM
07/03 |
As a female friend of mine used to say, fat girls are like mopeds, they are a lot of fun to ride until your friends see you on one. Just keep the hike buddies and the fuck buddy separate and all will be well.
--BZ
07/03 |
God damn it, AJE.
--PO
07/02 |
Cellulose = fiber. Fail.
--AJE
07/02 |
As an MD in a family practice clinic, I see plenty of physically fit obese people. I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but it is completely possible for a person to be both fit and fat. In fact, a heavy person with a high level of physical fitness is actually healthier than a normal weight person with a low level of physical fitness.
I second the chickenshit. Lines like "we can't share outdoorsy activities" are code for "I'm too ashamed to admit that I dig a fat chick." I hope she wises up and finds someone who is proud to be with her just the way she is.
--re
07/02 |
I don't think PO is being too harsh at all. If she is obese she is obviously not physically fit, there are not physically fit obese people. It's just the way it is. Also hiking is a lot more fun when you are hiking with people who share the same natural pace. That isn't going to be the case if one is fit and the other is heaving the whole way up the mountain. He just needs to let her know what he is down for.
--AD
07/02 |
Um. Fat Girl is pretty clearly making out well here. She's dating out of her league and she knows it. This is why she's treating him "like a king." In all likelihood she knows it's just a matter of time before Nature Boy finds a girl who gives good trail and good head and who he'd be more than happy to introduce around to his ultimate frisbee group. She'll be fine. She chose her prison of cellulose and now the warden's allowing her a conjugal visit. She's counting her blessings before the big heave-ho, and then she'll glue her heart back together with Nutella and marshmallow fluff. All's fair. And to anyone who can barely wait to finish this sentence before firing off a nasty post about how nasty I'm being, save it. Nature Boy knows I'm right, Fattie knows I'm right, Miss Manners knows, and so do you. Are you not entertained?
--PO
07/02 |
I'm going to give Word Search the benefit of the doubt here. 1) If, as others have wondered, she hasn't indicated she wants more, then chill and enjoy. I know plenty of woment who don't want the burden of a relationship but the benefits of sex. 2) If she is talking or acting in a way that suggests she wants more, then have a heart-to-heart with her: "I think you're amazing and smart and interesting and fun, and God knows I dig being in bed with you, but for a serious relationship, I need someone with more common interests. I love hiking and kayaking and being outdoorsy, and I know it's not your thing, so either you'd end up going along and resenting it, or I'd curtail my outdoors stuff and resent it. I'd like to keep going as we have, but only if it makes you happy, too."
--REM
07/02 |
rw is totally right. what, this girl's good enough to fuck and has a great personality but she's still out of the running? sounds like he's chickenshit and afraid of what other people will think. grow up.
--NP
07/02 |
to Word Search, physical fitness and weight are frequently unrelated. in fact some of the laziest people i know are the skinniest. you have nothing but praise for this girl except for her physical appearance. you are either deeply superficial or afraid that you actually have feelings for a fat chick. either way, you are every chubby girls worst nightmare. get over yourself or get lost. i also agree with hw above, has she actually asked for anything more out of this relationship or is everything about you?
--rw
07/02 |
I totally agree, and frankly even if she's overweight, that doesn't mean she's not into outdoorsy activities (as noted by Erin). I know many average size to overweight people who are very much into camping and the like. By the same token I know plenty of thin people who wouldn't be caught dead in a tent. He might not be attracted to her (although clearly he's attracted enough to sleep with her and clearly she has a good personality since he keeps referencing what a sweetheart she is) but that "she doesn't like to hike" bullshit is an obvious cop out.
--SS
07/02 |
right on, hw... sounds like kayak-boy is a bit jealous... while he's out in the woods with pud in hand, i bet fat girl is takin' numbers like dunkin' donuts...
--ch
07/02 |
Has Word Search's friend actually indicated she wants something more than a sexual relationship? It seems pretty arrogant for him to assume.
--hw
07/02 |
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