so I was trying to find J Michael Bailey's research showing that male bisexuality is "rare or non-existant" and it turns out this dude is pretty contraversional. People who might be skeptical of Bailey's ideas on male bisexuality should keep that in mind.
--ndm
01/11 |
great sex advice. far more intersting than the funny ones
--cb
01/11 |
Male bisexuality doesnīt exist!!! HA HA Thatīs a good one!
Iīm a straight 32 year old women and unfortunately most of my boyfriends have cheated on me with men, a couple of them have a living boy-friend while I write this post. These guys have been fucking "boys and girls" all their lifes but "male bisexuality doesnīt exist"?
GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK
What about that other guy saying that "kids donīt really suffer emotionally that much from sex-abuse"?
The sex advice from the Donnas and the Sex shop owners made much more sense to me
--SU
01/11 |
also, in response to the doubts about bailey's conclusions on male bisexuality, he does say "if by "bisexual" we mean men who have substantial sexual arousal to both sexes", meaning purely physiological responses to visual stimuli, not the choice to be sexually involved with both sexes. if i remember correctly, his studies involved measuring the flow of blood to the genitals of both sexes when exposed to heterosexual and homosexual (of both kinds) pornography. men, in general, responded much more strongly to one than to the other, which seems to indicate that while male bisexuality is possible, a truly equal physical response is very uncommon, almost to the point of nonexistence. does this mean that that's how men actually respond in real life? no, but measured results resulting from controlled experiments are usually a better guide than self reports.
--nwu
01/10 |
the human sex class i took with bailey was by far the most entertaining class i ever took in college, as well as being the only one i ever had perfect attendance for. during the first week of the quarter, we watched a video of two people having sex filmed from inside of a woman's vagina. imagine sitting in a darkened 300 person lecture, watching a 3 foot diameter penis thrusting directly at you! it's interesting that the first question happened to be about teacher-student relationships, because it's pretty well known that he's had quite a few.
--nwu
01/10 |
Interesting, and reasonably diverse in opinion. We should be careful 'tho that there is no one Truth about sex, and, moreover, PhD's don't have a special monopoly on it. Where the comments are advice about what to do in a practical situation, these scholars have done a good job. But where they have commented on whether 'exists' I think a line gets crossed. To suggest that bisexuality in men, for example, doesn't exist because they could not detect equal arousal [very likely via electrodes hooked up to subject's genitals] to straight and gay porn is reductive. It assumes bisexuality = equal arousal to gay+straight porn. What happens to this assumption if you observe that some people, presumably even some who might describe themselves as male bisexuals, don't like porn? The conclusions are tenuous at best.
I say, stick with advice.
--KO
01/07 |
The first prof had the most interesting answers.
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01/06 |
Good stuff.
--KsZ
01/06 |
While I enjoy advice from, say, the Donnas for its entertainment value, I felt like this was the first "Sex Advice" that was uniformly interesting, informative, and--especially--reliable. More, please!
--AKF
01/06 |
Why didn't they ask Sandra Caron the question, Is teacher-student sex ever okay?
I had a female give me answer during an exam and massage the back of my armat the same time. It was pretty bizarre. She pretty unattractive to me also. But I was doing bad on the exam so what the hell.
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01/06 |
YES! Finally some advice for people who know what they're talking about.
The fucking construction dude down the street can't even give good head and he's telling men how to do it. Misinformation is a bad, bad thing.
--SHE
01/06 |
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