"Whenever my girlfriend's ex is in town, they go out for long dinners alone together to "catch up." Is it valid for me to be bothered by this?" - Of course. A GF disrespects her BF by doing long dinners with an ex. If she is too immature and/or unwilling to kick the ex to the curb and move on with her life , kick her to the curb and date a hotter, younger, better woman. --FYI 01/03 |