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5 Inspirational Things You Can Learn from Watching Porn

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Life lessons hide in the best places. 

 

1. Learn to be adaptable and open to change.

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Adaptability is the key to survival and is perfect advice for the bedroom. If you look at any porn actor's career, they've held as many positions as Barbie. And I'm not making a pun. Each scene, each edition of "Poolside Party Boys" puts the actor in a different scenario, and they act accordingly. Bring this mindset into your own sex life and you may find that you and your partner are much more satisfied. 

2. Learn to be accepting of all those niches.

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Human sexuality is amazing because everyone wants something different, and for the most part (like 99 percent), that should be celebrated. You met someone who's into whipped cream? Awesome! You met someone who thinks dairy-based food during sex is gross? Also awesome! Don't marginalize others and you'll be having crazy good times with oddity-loving, sexually exploratory lovers you didn't even know existed back when you associated "fetish" with deviance. 

3. Learn that you're totally normal.

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First, remove "normal" from your sex-tionary. All does is close both doors and legs. Next, realize that whatever you're into, odds are someone else is too. Don't think so? Google it. Just for fun. Google what you're into and ten bucks says there's some porn out there that explores the exact thing you're thinking of. You'll be less hung up on how "normal" you are when you realize your desires aren't wrong just because they're unique.

4. Learn to be happier with your body.

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Far too often we think of porn only having representations of pristine, clean-shaven people bumping pretties while simultaneously ignoring the giant staff of people that help to create that image. The next time you're having sex, and you realize it doesn't look like porn, rejoice. You're having real sex, with real pleasure, and here's hoping real orgasms. Need more proof? Check out amateur or homemade porn. It's kind of the best anyway. 

5. Learn some new tricks.

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You know how football players watch their old games to improve technique? It's just like that but instead of having to record yourself (unless you're into that) you get to watch other people and learn from them. I guess it's really more like going to a football game than watching your own, but either way, you're working on your shit just like Iggy taught you. 

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