My First Time

Female • 16 years old • Acworth, GA


Illustration by Thomas Pitilli

My next-door neighbor and I played pool for "points" in high school. Whoever won the game got a point. You could use points for certain sexual favors.

We did this for a few months, using them for oral sex and making out. The funny thing was that I was the one who finally got up the guts to really cash in. I drove to the next county to buy condoms, sure that if I bought them at the local store I would run into someone I knew.

I wasn't really sure how to say what I wanted. He played guitar, so I bought him a new set of strings and put a condom in the box. I stuck a note to it saying, "You know you owe me." That was it. We had sex (both of our first times) in my room after school the next day. My parents got home ten minutes after he left.

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Commentarium (8 Comments)

Mar 02 10 - 5:49pm
Eric

Oh man, I wonder what my high school experience would have been like if the slightly predatory, slightly older girl next door hadn't moved away when I was 12.

Mar 02 10 - 7:01pm
ash

i love stories about neighbors seeing as i have recently started hooking up with mine after 13 years of living next door.

Mar 03 10 - 1:24pm
JG

I think comments fishing for more details sound kinda' pervy.

Mar 03 10 - 11:45am
tmp

short but sweet!

Mar 03 10 - 12:32pm
womp

This had the potential to be a good read, it could have had a few surprises in it. But it's so short, it ends where it should have begun. What was his reaction? Was he surprised? Was he more nervous than you? How many points did you need to cash in? Was there a point system? *sigh* so many questions!

I do wish I was this bold in my younger years. Life would have been different.

Mar 03 10 - 3:46pm
GTed

If I didn"t see the header I would have thought this was a homosexual first time.

Aug 30 10 - 1:55am
america

Possible fake: Acworth is on or very near the borders of like four counties.

Jun 30 11 - 5:52pm
henrik2k

Cute, but indeed too short. Thanks for sharing anyway.

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