Scott, 26, Seattle, WA

How did you meet your girlfriend?
We met at a Christmas party at a BDSM club owned by my aunt. 

Your aunt? You've got to be making that up.
I'm not that imaginative. My aunt really does have a BDSM club. Some people get an adrenaline rush from the pain in BDSM scenes, but it's not even a sexual thing, necessarily. The whole thing is very misunderstood. I was flogged once, at my aunt's club. It wasn't sexual at all, but I almost went into shock. I kept calling out "Judas Priest!" and "Mother Teresa!" I didn't want to curse in front of my family.