Where are you from?
I’m from here, but I was living in Peru for three months over the summer. I didn’t really date while I was there. Honestly, I just got drunk a lot and hooked up the whole time, and I don’t really remember much of it. It’s definitely more of a hookup scene in Peru, because there’s a lot of tourists. People just go there to get really wasted and do a lot of drugs and hook up. But if you’re Peruvian, then you obviously have an easier time meeting Peruvians to date. I have a couple friends there who are in pretty serious monogamous relationships and they love each other. But I was there to have fun and most people are just there to have fun. I’m at a pretty interesting point in my life. I don’t want anything serious, but the fact that I’m recently out of a relationship makes me vulnerable to more open, purely physical relationships. But I know what’s best for me, and even though right now it’s best for me to not be in any relationship at all, it’s hard to stay away from those physical relationships because we all have those kinds of desires. That’s kind of where I am right now. I kind of miss the intimacy, but I don’t want a long-term commitment of any kind.
Do you have any crazy hookup stories?
Actually no, because since I was about fourteen, I’ve been in a series of pretty serious monogamous relationships. I’m single now, just went through a long-distance breakup. Long-distance relationships just don’t work. A lot of the time somebody makes a mistake and the other person can't forgive, even if it's an honest mistake. In Peru I didn’t do anything sexual, I just made out with one — I mean, I only remember making out with one guy. I made out with a guy from Wales at a bar, and he’s my friend now, and it’s really awkward. I made out with some guy who worked with me and it was awkward because he didn’t even speak English. I don’t remember how it happened. We were really drunk, he just kept buying beer, and I was probably just like, "Hey, you’re kinda cute, let me make out with you."
Where’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex?
Since I’ve had a lot of monogamous relationships, it’s mostly places like my parents’ room or my parents’ bathroom. Or in cars with other people in the car. Not even friends, but like, family or something really creepy like that. My boyfriend and I were on a long-distance drive to the Keys or something, and we didn’t have full-on sex; it was more like fooling around under a blanket in the backseat. This wasn’t with my most recent ex, I haven’t been with this guy for like four years.
What’s your favorite position?
I like it when I’m on the bottom. I like being controlled. I like it when I’m submissive, when the guy takes control. But at the same time it depends, because sometimes they just try to only take care of their needs and you’re just sitting there like, "What the fuck, I’m really bored." But I’ve never done anything really crazy. I don’t want to say that I’ve usually been more like the wife-type material, but sort of. That’s kind of boring, right? But I have had sex with more than one person, and most of the time it ends up being the same thing. I’m on bottom, they’re on top, doggy-style, or whatever. It doesn’t really matter. I’m open to just doing whatever pleases both of us. Even if it’s really awkward positions, I’ll try it. But I don’t have a name for it, I just do whatever the fuck happens.