Joro, 33

What are you doing for a living?
I'm a copywriter, a manager, and an owner of a small bar, and I write articles for lifestyle magazines.

Wow, that's a lot of things. Do you think that being involved in writing helps you attract chicks?
Oh, definitely, yes. Girls like guys who at least look intelligent. The fact that you write for a magazine, even online, places you higher in the girls' eyes, compared to guys who install windows or air-conditioning systems for a living.

What kind of women do you like?
Women who are able to lose and find themselves, and are free spirits. I mean, the kind that don't limit themselves, don't change to others' opinion. Women who aren't too vain, so their vanity doesn't hinder them being themselves.

Do you have a girlfriend now?
No. I ended a two-year relationship three months ago.

Why?
We weren't on the same stage of life. She was nine years younger.

Do you think that the age matters?
No, I think that what matters is how people get along together and how they feel each other. For me and this girl, the problem was that I'm busy with a lot of different things and she's just a student — she didn't even have a hobby or anything. I think that gave her an inferiority complex.

Did you break up with her or did she break up with you?
She provoked the talk, but we both made the decision.

Do you miss her?
Yes, sometimes.

Are you more often single or in a relationship?
Well, this was my longest relationship ever. Before that I had some "relationships" for few months, but usually only for the regular sex.

What's your biggest turn-off?
Hairy pussy. Period. Once I met a chick on the seaside, and when we went to her hotel to fuck and she took her clothes off, I saw that she had hair on her pussy, so I put my clothes on and I left. This is a big turn-off for me. Also, in sex in general, I don't like girls playing with my ass.

What age were you the first time you had sex?
I was fourteen at a high-school party and this girl, five years older than me, invited me to sleep at her place, because it was way too loud at the party. Then, she started making out with me and we had sex. I came in maybe a minute and I never saw her again.

Do you bartend at your own bar?
Oh, yes.

So do you think that the girls are attracted to bartenders?
Oh, yeah. For other men, starting a conversation is flirting. For bartenders, it's part of their job, so the girls don't feel how they get hooked!

What's your special skill to get a girl?
I really pay attention to her body language. Bartenders are psychologists, so they have already different "templates" for different characters, and they know how to deal with each one of them. After a few sentences, I understand if this woman is going to be cool if I start telling her directly that I want to fuck her or to lick her pussy.

What body movement will tell you that this chick want to have sex with you?
If she plays with her hair, if she don't want to look directly in my eyes 'cause she's afraid that I'll understand what's hiding behind them, the crossing of the legs, covering of the naked parts of her body, 'cause she already feels naked in front of me.

Have you ever got a girl drunk at your bar so you can fuck her later?
No, I don't need to. At least in Bulgaria, the girls who decide to sit on the bar are more active, and they look for a contact and a talk with the bartender. The three classic fucks for a woman are bartender, DJ, and lifeguard.

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