Lili, 24

Where are you from, Lili?
I'm from Sofia. I test software, and I dance salsa and swing in my free time.

What do you think about the men in Sofia?
Total jerks. They lack manners, respect for women, style, and class.

Where do you think there are men who have all these things?
In France. The last time I was really impressed by a man, he was French.

Did you meet him in Sofia?
No, that was on Sunny Beach, on the seaside. We met in a bar at Cacao Beach, called Bedroom. He bought me a drink and then we started a conversation. I went home with him few days after.

How many times did you see him before you guys had sex?
Two or three times. We were on a vacation.

How was the sex? Was it better than with a Bulgarian?
Well, I can't say that it was due to nationality, but the emotions were very important. He also answered all my ideals for a men.

What are your ideals?
As I told you, the manners are very important. Also, I'm looking for an artistry. I like confidence — when a man is flirting with you and knows how to get what he wants, knows not to be shy, knows not to play like a little kid.

Do you have a boyfriend now?
No.

Are you looking for one?
No, I'm living my life and I enjoy every day of it.

Where can you find the hottest guys in Sofia?
I recently met some guys through work, some who were my dance partners, some I met through common friends. I like dancers.

Do you think that a sexual attraction is a must between dance partners?
Well, one of the best dancing couples — world champions from the West Coast — are actually a brother and a sister. So sometimes you need skills, but for the social dance, the dance of the conversation, it's very important to have attraction. There's a saying in Bulgaria that the dance is a vertical expression of horizontal intentions, so I think there must be passion.

When did you had sex for the first time?
I was seventeen. It was horrible. He wasn't exactly my boyfriend — we were lovers for year and a half. Actually, we had some "relationship" that no one ever understood, and then some drama happened and put the final point on my teenage passions. It was a high-school story.

What's the biggest turn-on and the biggest turn-off for you on a first date?
A lot of things turn me off. I really despise obvious aggression. About turn-ons, I'll be impressed if he's honest and open-minded. I don't have a certain type — at first I liked dark eyes, then I liked blonde-haired blue-eyed guys, then I liked dark hair and bright eyes, and then all kinds of combinations. I'm impressed more from the soul now and if a man can dance with heart. I like if the guy isn't stuck in society's chains but can afford to be free.

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