15. The Ramones, "She's the One" (1978)

There's usually a point in every relationship where you want to jump around the room like an idiot because someone has made you so very happy. The Ramones knew this decades before Tom Cruise did, and captured that feeling in just over two minutes of bouncing glee. — A.H.

Listen: The Ramones, "She's the One"


14. Dionne Warwick and The Spinners, "Then Came You" (1974)

Via Dionne Warwick's able crooning, "Then Came You" is optimistic, cinematic, and perhaps most of all, mature. The build-up of the piano and the Spinners' backup vocals makes you feel like a character in a musical, oddly compelled to stand up and sing along. In short, "Then Came You" is the kind of song that gradually infiltrates your body until you can't help but stand up and clap your hands together in celebration of that often-awful-but-occasionally-awesome feeling: love. — M.H.

Listen: Dionne Warwick and The Spinners, "Then Came You"


13. Patti Smith, "Because the Night" (1978)

Written by Bruce Springsteen for Patti Smith, "Because the Night" has since been recorded by acts from 10,000 Maniacs to Springsteen himself. But no one's ever seemed to mean it quite as much as Smith. She captures the rapturous excitement of being with someone special, and, um, taking advantage of the sundown. — Kristin Hunt

Listen:Patti Smith, "Because the Night"


12. Bruce Springsteen, "She's the One" (1975)

On an album brimming over with romance, most of it of the starry-eyed, teenage-rebellion variety, "She's the One" stands out as the purest love song. "Born to Run" may embrace the sentiment of doomed lovers on the lam, but it's more about escape than the down-to-earth emotions expressed here, an assured declaration of love grounded by a brawny sax solo. — Jesse Cataldo, of Slant Magazine

Listen:Bruce Springsteen, "She's the One"


11. Elton John, "Your Song" (1970)

Many love songs are so over-the-top that the words lose meaning. "Your Song" is a ballad for the ordinary man or woman who can't promise the world to the one they love. Instead of saying what he will do, Elton expresses — with an honest yearning in his voice — what he would do if he could. Instead of buying big houses or painting a masterpiece, all he can do is try his best to make a simple love song. It turns out to be a pretty good one. — Confusion, of Pigeons and Planes

Listen: Elton John, "Your Song"


10. Earth, Wind & Fire, "September" (1978)

Funk music can be so busy and buoyant that tender emotion sometimes gets subsumed by groove. (After all, I generally don't think of my booty as my center of love.) But "September" nails both: it's sweetly nostalgic, adorably wholesome, and irresistibly funky.A.H.

Listen: Earth, Wind & Fire, "September"


9. Jackson 5, "I'll Be There" (1970)

Before all the drama complicated the story of Michael Jackson and his family, there was "I'll Be There," an innocent declaration of unconditional love. It was a sentiment that obviously resonated with a lot of people; the song was the Jackson 5's most successful single ever. — Confusion, of Pigeons and Planes

Listen: Jackson 5, "I'll Be There"


Commentarium (70 Comments)

Nov 07 11 - 1:18am

This was fantastic. It can be tough for us 20-somethings to get into any 70s music. Roberta Flack!!

Nov 10 11 - 10:07pm

nice that young folk can like what we liked that many years ago!!

Nov 07 11 - 1:45am

Great list, appreciated being able to play all of the tracks. One suggestion: I would have liked to see Minnie Riperton's "Lovin' You" on the list.

Nov 08 11 - 1:18am

Yipes. That song's nails on the chalkboard screech presages Mariah Carey and makes my 'nads go skittering for safety.

Other than that, the song is terrific.

Nov 11 11 - 6:32am

The difference is that Minne didn't screech. She just glides through insanely high notes. Putting her on the same page as Carey is really a very heavy insult to the memory of a truly great talent.

Nov 07 11 - 1:55am
Victor W

A list that has EW&F, the Jackson 5, Stevie, Bill Withers and Al Green all in the top 10 is definitely awesome. A bit of Stylistics would have been nice ("I'm Stone In Love With You" or "Betcha By Golly, Wow" would be my choice, or even "You Make Me Feel Brand New") and "Oh Girl" by the Chi-Lites (if you call that a 'love song'). I think Marvin Gaye should somehow be on the list too, but he didn't really do a lot of 'love' songs in the 70s. "Lets Get It On" doesn't really fit the bill, I guess.

Nov 07 11 - 3:10am

Thanks, now I have Stylistics stuck in my head.

Nov 07 11 - 4:53am
Victor W

That's a good thing ... right? And I didn't even mention "You Are Everything": that's at least four classic love songs that could have been on the list.

Nov 07 11 - 10:36am

Yeah, "Betcha By Golly, Wow" almost made it. And we looked carefully at Marvin Gaye's '70s discography, but you're right--actual love songs are few. ("You Sure Love to Ball" didn't seem to fit, as much as we wanted it to.) We do have Marvin Gaye (with Tammi Terrell) on the '60s list.

Nov 07 11 - 2:10am

Amazing list. A+

Nov 07 11 - 4:26am

Love it! Except it should have been "Woman" by John Lennon. Legendary.

Nov 07 11 - 4:54am
Victor W

You'll have to wait for Nerve's Top 25 Love Songs of the 80s. It came out in 1980.

Nov 07 11 - 9:18pm

English actor/singer Jimmy Nail does a killer version of "Love" on his album "Big River".

Nov 07 11 - 9:16am

"Except it should have been "Woman" by John Lennon. Legendary." Except that "Woman" came out in 1980.

Nov 07 11 - 11:34am

How Deep Is Your Love! BeeGees

Nov 07 11 - 11:27pm
sexy minx

I lost my virginity to that song!

Nov 07 11 - 12:15pm

"My Love" by Paul McCartney. Even better is the new cover by Corinne Bailey Rae.

Dec 07 11 - 2:27am

McCartney put out so many great ones in the 70s, it's ridiculous. Even Mull of Kintyre is a fabulous love (...of the Earth) song.

Nov 07 11 - 12:25pm

I'd go with Springstreen's "Backstreets" rather than "She's the One." Because love songs of queer adolescent anguish and exhilaration are still awesome love songs.

Nov 30 11 - 1:03am

That was my immediate thought as well.

Nov 07 11 - 12:43pm
Hipster Hustle

Of course you can go to the zoo with heroin. And why can't a love song be about a drug, an addiction? It's far more moving and deep to have layers (which reed's greatest works contain in folds). To be attached and reviled, addicted and loath, to someone, something, to the point they mingle into the highest high, revisited by the bitter plight of memory. I really like the song though, so I can't complain. :D

Nov 07 11 - 1:37pm
Alex Heigl

Well, the song made it onto the list based on the idea that it was about a person. I think you're right, though -- the song's layers and nuances are what makes it work. Someone brought up the line "You made me forget myself/ I thought I was someone else, someone good," as an example of its negativity, but I think that ultimately just makes it that much more honest and unflinching.

Nov 07 11 - 1:50pm

Those lines are so great precisely because sometimes another person can make you do that (at least for a few moments).

Nov 07 11 - 1:03pm

I can't even read the title "Perfect Day" without misting up a little.

Nov 07 11 - 2:35pm

Nice list. Always nice to be reminded of classics and find some new ones.

Nov 07 11 - 2:51pm

No Dylan? I thought I was sure to see something off of 'Blood on the Tracks' on this list. I am disappoint, Nerve

Nov 07 11 - 3:34pm
Alex Heigl

Not sure if trolling or wildly confused about that album's subject matter.

Nov 07 11 - 4:36pm

Well I wasn't suggesting putting "Idiot Wind" on the list. Too much hot fire. But some of the other tracks utterly lack that venom and are entirely good-natured. even if they feature dylan pining about a lost love or fretting over one he's about to lose, aren't they still great love songs?

Nov 07 11 - 6:08pm

not according to the intro.

Nov 07 11 - 6:40pm

Time in a Bottle - Jim Croce

Nov 07 11 - 9:18pm


Nov 08 11 - 5:52pm

Agreed, such a beautiful song

Nov 07 11 - 8:36pm

Lovely list and all, truly but where the f%$& is Marvin Gaye?! "I Want You"? People please!

Nov 08 11 - 12:15pm

Doesn't really fit our criteria. Marvin made it onto the '60s list.

Nov 08 11 - 12:39pm

So then, Peter, by your logic, Marvin Gaye is only fit to place once on one of Nerve's lists? I agree, "I Want You" is a love song. I was actually written about a woman he was mad over. Sheesh...

Nov 08 11 - 6:03pm

"It's too bad, it's too sad/ You don't want me now/ But I'm gonna change your mind/ Someway, somehow, oh baby" -- that goes specifically against what we're talking about (songs of devotion, not songs of longing).

Nov 07 11 - 9:23pm

How about "Angie" in place of "Wild Horses"?

Nov 08 11 - 11:22am
Alex Heigl

"Angie, you're beautiful, but ain't it time we said goodbye?" Nah. Great song, but definitely a break-up piece.

Nov 07 11 - 10:45pm
grant the architect

what, no I Was Made for Lovin' You by Kiss? What kind of rip off is this I see before me?

Nov 07 11 - 10:58pm

Hard to say what should be taken out, but Layla didn't make it?

Nov 08 11 - 1:23am

Just for the sake of symmetry since one of the '60s great love songs was about the same person. ("Wonderful Tonight," too?)

Nov 07 11 - 11:06pm

It's a shame that the list doesn't have "for once in my life" with Gladys knigths and the Pips.

Nov 07 11 - 11:25pm

So you all missed the number one...Lovin' You by Minnie Ripperton...1974.

Nov 07 11 - 11:39pm
Where Are....

1. I'm all out of Love- Air Supply
2. Twelfth of never- Donny Osmand
3. Hello it's Me- Todd Rundgren
4. Band Of Gold - Freda Payne
5. Without You - Nilsson
6. You Make Me Feel Brand New - The Stylistics
7. Emotion - Samantha Sang

Nov 08 11 - 11:25am
Alex Heigl

We thought of "Without You," but jaw-droppingly beautiful as it is, it's a breakup song.

Nov 10 11 - 10:09pm

Alex is right, i think, though that is an odd/love-break up song: Could have been a novel!

Nov 08 11 - 11:38am

Great list! One of the best of the series by far...I was surprised by the lack of Fleetwood Mac. No "Songbird"?

Nov 08 11 - 12:16pm

If we ever get around to a list of the best breakup songs, I assure you it'll be 90% Mac.

Nov 08 11 - 10:12pm
grant the architect

yeah, songbird for sure should be here.

Nov 08 11 - 11:38am

Good list... agree with some more than others, but ultimately, Flack's rendition of 'The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face' is definitely the best love song of the 70s....maybe of all time.

Nov 08 11 - 7:18pm

Where is "Best of My Love" by the Emotions?

(I also would have liked to see some Supremes on the 60s AND the 70s list, but I guess most of their biggest hits fall into the heartbreak category. But seriously, "Best of My Love"!)

Nov 09 11 - 5:11pm

A few more:

Neil Young "When You Dance I Can Really Love"
Pete Townshend - "Mary" (it wasn't released until the 1980's, but I'm fairly certain he recorded it in the early 70's)
Joe Ely- "Because the Wind"
Tom Petty - "Here Comes My Girl"

and imo Al Green's "What a Wonderful Thing Love Is" is as good, if not better than "Let's Stay Together"

Nov 09 11 - 9:08pm

I have always thought that Wonderful Tonight was a breakup song. Like, the last final moment before throwing in the towel.

Nov 10 11 - 10:02pm

agree: It always had that sense of "Oh, you look great; Goodbye" to me , too

Nov 10 11 - 1:20pm

Dan Hill, "Sometimes When We Touch."

Nov 10 11 - 11:16pm

Ooof. Well, that list kicked my ass. Now for some of Mr. Daniels best Old No.7, and see y'all Tuesday.

Kidding, kidding. Gave me nothing but the *good* kind of soul-scorching excruciating pain.

Nov 11 11 - 6:36am

What happened to "I'm not in love" by 10cc?? And there should've been "Killing me softly" as well. Just because the number one is by Roberta Flack doesn't mean that the number 2 can't be as well!

Nov 19 11 - 5:44am
Mike Hehir

Where is "Let's Get It On" by Marvin Gaye?

Dec 01 11 - 8:05pm

It doesn't fit the criteria....

Nov 20 11 - 8:19am

Whoa, whoa, get out the way with that good ifnomratoin.

Dec 01 11 - 5:21pm
Shirley Marquez

What, no "Colour My World" by Chicago?

Dec 01 11 - 8:04pm

Well, your criteria knock out a few classics that would otherwise spring to mind - You To Me Are Everything by The Real Thing might be pop but it's pure, joyous pop (but is a bit yearning), Make it With You (Bread) ditto and a bit winsome, but how about a lost classic - You're My Everything, Lee Garrett. "Plenty of sunshine to follow the rain, I'm yours and your mine baby, why should we complain". Why indeed? Great list, but Wonderful Tonight is a painful dirge, Eric's worst ever song. Cheers!

Dec 07 11 - 2:33am
Pete I Hate Your Way

As a white european male, I'd rather walk naked from one end of Baghdad to the other before I ever again knowingly subject myself to Peter Frampton.

Jan 04 12 - 12:50pm

The incomparable but shy Mick Taylor was on Wild Horses. Fact checkers?

Jan 04 12 - 7:31pm
Alex Heigl

Ah, sharp eyes. Bit much to expect the intern picking out photos for these articles to have an encyclopedic knowledge of Rolling Stones guitarists, though. A begrudging touche to you, sir, though that probably won't get changed.

Mar 18 12 - 12:58pm

Precious and Few by Climax. And I completely agree that Dan Hill's Sometimes when we touch should be there. Johnny Rivers, Slow Dancin Swayin to the Music should be given some thought too. So many to pick from. Tough job but 1 or 2 of these should be there in the list.

Apr 17 12 - 10:05am

Paul Davis - "I go crazy"... is that going to be on the breakup list?

Apr 18 12 - 11:54am

Help Me- Joni Mitchell... not sure if it qualifies as a song about devotion but it's beautiful all the same! x

Jun 01 12 - 11:55pm

"Day After Day" by Badfinger???

Aug 23 12 - 4:16pm

How about LADY by Styx and THE AIR THAT I BREATH by The Hollies