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November 30, 2011
16. Snow Patrol, "Chasing Cars" (2006)
With a good love, everything else in life can seem better. With a great love, nothing else even matters. The Beatles may have said it with "All You Need Is Love," but "Chasing Cars" nails the desire for the other person to feel the same way. It's bursting with hope and potential. — Garrett Carey
Listen: Snow Patrol, "Chasing Cars"
15. Iron & Wine, "Naked As We Came" (2004)
Either ghoulish or profound, "Naked As We Came" is a promise to whoever in a couple dies first to "spread our ashes round the yard" — a pledge of ultimate devotion, presented in quiet, almost domestic terms. Weirdly moving, it's a love song that also manages to cover life, death, and everything in between. — P.S.
Listen: Iron & Wine, "Naked As We Came"
14. Jay-Z, "'03 Bonnie and Clyde" (2002)
To hear Jay-Z, the man who once rapped, "Me, give my heart to a woman?/ Not for nothing, never happening/ I'll be forever mackin'," talk about how much he needs his girlfriend is heart-warming. (I'm a sucker for a bad-boy-gone-good story.) And as a bonus, Kanye West's production is impeccable, and Jay-Z's chemistry with Beyonce floods the track. Given his ridiculous level of fame, it's very sweet to hear that his relationship with B isn't just about "Timbs, aviator lens, 600 drops and Mercedes Benzes" but also about the times when they silently watch Sex and the City together. — C.M.
Listen: Jay-Z, "'03 Bonnie and Clyde"
13. Sufjan Stevens, "Rake" (2000)
While it's open to interpretation, I think "Rake" is about the security you can find in another person. Sufjan's strange lyrics convey the need for someone you don't have to front for — someone you can take solace with when the outside world becomes too much. While "the rock" invokes stability, the titular "rake" can be that which removes you from a bad situation. — Carlos Cabrera
Listen: Sufjan Stevens, "Rake"
12. Common, "The Light" (2000)
Let's be clear: Common is not the type to walk around with matchin' shirts. But he will be by your side, be the one to make you the happiest, and, most importantly, he won't call you his bitch. That's true love. —K.H.
Listen: Common, "The Light"
11. The Swell Season, "In These Arms" (2009)
Basically every song by The Swell Season is sincere, granted, but "In These Arms" must be the apex. Saying you were born to hold someone in your arms can easily skew cheesy, but Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova's earnest suggestion feels like the genuine article. — K.H.
Listen: The Swell Season, "In These Arms"
10. Norah Jones, "Come Away With Me" (2002)
Now that it's won eight Grammies and sold exactly one bazillion copies, it's hard to remember how anachronistically fresh Come Away With Me sounded in 2002. The smoky, elegant title track turns a simple entreaty into a world unto itself — one you can take someone's hand and escape into. — A.H.
Listen: Norah Jones, "Come Away With Me"
9. Ben Folds, "The Luckiest" (2001)
"The Luckiest" is for all those awkward beta-males who don't quite know how they found love. We won't dare question how, but just appreciate the fact that it's happened. Although it may not seem like a big deal to all the charmers out there, to a man who plays a keytar, it's a big deal. — C.C.
Listen: Ben Folds, "The Luckiest"
Commentarium (128 Comments)
*cries happy tears* You put edward sharpe and the magnetic zeroes as the cover image. I love you Nerve!
"Best I Ever Had"? Really?
Okay, you went out on a limb of sorts (i.e., not a ballad or even midtempo typical lovesong) with "Crazy in Love" and it paid off - it's an excellent song. "Best I Ever Had," though. I mean, Drake has made good music but this certainly doesn't belong on any "best of" lists - especially love songs of a decade.
Dude that was totally me and someone's song one summer - winner
Best I Ever Had got dedicated to so many girlfriends from 2009 to 2010 guaranteed
It may have been dedicated but certainly some others should be in replaced, i can tell you that for sure.
I think TV on the Radio deserved to be on this list. Maybe in place of Crazy in Love or My Love by J Lake. Crazy just doesn't have that grand, proclamation of love feel, and My Love has always sounded like a "fuck me" song. I think that Maps definitely deserves number one though.
Agree with TV on the Radio. I would vote for Lover's Day, although to me, strictly speaking, it is a beautiful and amazing song about sex (perhaps the best ever) which may not qualify as a 'love song'.
I'd vote for Things You Can Do. Even the way the music sounds reminds me of being in love.
I would vote for Wolf Like Me. That's romance.
I'd vote for either You or Will Do. Those songs make my heart melt. If a lover of mine ever played those for me... Oh man.
@nope
"baby doll I recognize
you're a hideous thing inside"
oh yeah, that's romance.
Home is wherecever i am with you
That is a bar/karaoke song.. also ruined by the NFL last season..
Finally a music list that reflects the soulessness of it's generation: I love you Nerve!
My thoughts exactly.
On the other lists I knew all of the songs. On this one I didn't.
#7 off of the "25 Greatest Love Songs of the 1960s" -- At Last
#7 off of the "25 Greatest Love Songs of the 2000s" -- Crazy in Love
I'm sure I will just be one of a hundred people bemoaning the state of music today, but seriously. Crazy in Love was a mediocre pop tune. I can't imagine any system that ranks it in the same league as At Last.
Yes, Crazy in love was a pop tune and does not belong to love songs
Why the bashing on Crazy In Love? your hipster hearts are hurting? it's an awesome song!
Probably because a love song has to have more than just the word 'love' in the title to qualify as a love song. As a minimum it should have a tempo slow enough for you to dance with your significant other in a romantic fashion. I pity anyone that has never slow-danced with that someone special, because once you have, you'd understand how sad this list really is.
A whole bunch of these songs aren't slow-tempo though. I think "Crazy" does a great job of conveying how important one person becomes, and how everyone else fades into the background when You're in love.
I don't think a song has to be slow to be an intense expression of love (see many of the 60s list faster picks), but I agree that "Crazy in Love" should not be on this list. It's a fun, danceable song, but it's just that -- a dance song, and honestly a fairly forgettable one at that. Definitely doesn't conjure up lovey dovey feelings, just makes my wanna shake my booty.
I'm sorry, what? A love song isn't a love song unless it has a slow tempo? Wtf are you talking about? What does tempo have to do with the meaning of the song?
Bonus fact: In the 'MAPS' music video, Karen O is actually crying, because the titular Angus was supposed to come to the film set to see her but didn't show.
Including "Best I Ever Had" shows that whoever wrote this knows little about R&B/Hip-Hop.
THIS
i love ben folds but the luckiest is my least favorite song of his. period.
also no death cab? : (
Totally man, one of the worst Ben songs and death cab was my heart and soul of the 2000's!
Drake is still a guilty pleasure though......
I know nothing about music, but I learned the same thing from every one of these lists: You can't please everybody (or, on Nerve, seemingly anybody).
I disapprove.
That's it, Franco! No more coverage of your next ill-advised vanity project!
heehee
You completely lost me by including No Doubt on this list. That song is a big steaming turd. You got me back with the top four. I might rearrange them, but they all deserve to be there.
Second this.
Only thing wrong is the rap interlude.
No Doubt is on this list. Your arguement is invalid.
Your point makes no sense.
Um....
"Falling for the first time," Barenaked Ladies
"Home," Sheryl Crow
"I will follow you into the dark," Death Cab for Cutie.
Still, not a bad list.
Agree with I'll Follow You. I forgot about that one!
I hate deathcab with a passion I reserve for Jehovah's Witnesses after a Wednesday to Friday bender.
But "I Will Follow..." is a song of such brilliant lyrical economy that to deny it a place on this list is kinda retarded.
I wish I'd written it.
I think that there are so many songs by so many indie artists that could've gone on this list that they just forgot about a lot of them. It IS retarded that I'll Follow You Into the Dark isn't on here. REPRINT!
+1 for "Falling for the first time".
Yay for putting The Luckiest by Ben Folds! I think it's one of his best songs to date! Amazing.
played by every person under 39 at the wedding..which I'm neither for or against...just sayin'
And I would have mad "Home" number one. Jus saying
Swap out Chasing Cars (which might as well be a Nickelback song for its lyrical quality) for Death Cab's Transatlanticism and you've got yourself a winner.
Oh shit, I agree entirely. That whole album still breaks my heart.
I would like to have seen some Damien Rice.
a thousand times yes.
I like this idea.
Blower's Daughter!
THIS!
Is that a picture of Ben Folds Five beside his SOLO album? You couldn't find a picture of Ben from around that album's release?
Also, Maps is a good choice. Hate the rest of the catalogue from that band, but that song rules
...and I thought the '90's sucked....
This is the worst compilation of "Best Of" songs I have ever seen/heard in my life! And I was a DJ for years!!!
What about I'll Believe in Anything by Wolf Parade?
agreed times infinity.
what a fuckin' song.
So many good picks, particularly the Avett Bros., Regina Spektor and The Swell Season. My favorite list thus far!
Prototype by Andre 3000 needed to be on this list!
YES!
A few "huh?" choices on there ("Underneath it All"? Really? And I don't even hate No Doubt.) but this is a pretty excellent list. Old 97s' "Question" and Avett Brothers' "January Wedding" are two of my absolute favorites. Looking forward to listening to this entire list today... and probably every day for a while.
I have one problem with this list... Ray Lamontagne's 'Hold you in my arms' isn't on it.
Really? He's a modern-day Jose Feliciano
This is a solid list. The 90's list I disagreed with, but this one I am largely behind. Go forth, Internet! You have pleased me!
"Summertime Clothes" is the perfect description of a certain stage of love, isn't it?
I do have to agree...best list of this entire series dispite a few questionable ones.
Summer Skin by Death Cab and Try Again by Keane should both be on this, otherwise a solid list.
Amazing call with January Wedding. I love that song. I love singing that song, listening to it, playing it. Girls dream of songs like that being written for them.
Where is ANY John Legend song?
Ooh good call.
"The Luckiest" is my sister's and her husband's wedding song.
And am I the only one who thinks Regina Spektor sounds like a more annoying Tori Amos? I mean c'mon!
I don't usually, but I just listened to that song for the first time and thought she sounded like someone gave Ray Romano a heavy dose of estrogen.
I don't think she sounds 'annoying' at all. I find her music to be refreshing considering most artists nowadays rely on auto-tune.
I do like the list but I'll follow you into the dark is a love song that still makes me cry because its sooo perfect! Great call with Maps being number one.....other love song that makes me cry everytime i hear it. :)
I can agree with most of this, except for Ben Folds. That guy is awful. Just awful.
So typical reading the customary "Coldplay sucks. . . buuuuut" prelude, of course Yellow belongs on this list. Or Green Eyes. Or The Scientist.
Weird Fishes by Radiohead.
We wanted to put a Radiohead song on here so badly, but all their songs are just so unhappy: "Weird Fishes" has "Yeah, everybody leaves if they get the chance / and this is my chance." Even "All I Need" is just plain dark. Believe me, we tried.
Haha. . .beyond the cliche idiocy of trying to put a Radiohead song on for the sake of Radiohead, you're showing a shallow view of Radiohead's discography. Jigsaw Falling into Place has more heart than half of this list. High and Dry is the obvious choice. But, um. . .Exit Music for a Film? "Believe me, we tried." Damn. Everything about this post is why music journalism is a joke.
Uh, "House of Cards" of off in Rainbows anyone?
If that's not white people freak music, then, well, I suppose I just don't know white people.
House of Cards. Nailed it. "I don't wanna be your friend/I just wanna be your lover"...Christ's sake, it's written out for you.
Rob wins. Music journalism is in a terrible state these days and that post is an excellent example.
God, Radiohead fans are about as whiny as Thom Yorke. Bitch bitch bitch.
House of Cards is a "trying to get with you" song, not a song about two people who are together.
What's the fucking difference?
True Love Waits would have been good for a Radiohead song.
oh snow patrol...those lyrics (in facts loads of their lyrics) just get to me. They take a normal thought and make it so beautiful
Sharon Van Etten - For You. Go ahead and edit your list, you'll thank me later.
Also could have added about a dozen Stars songs, but I recommend My Favourite Book. Geek love song Bliss.
Ne-yo. 'So Sick' is a song that definitely deserves a spot.
Love "Miss Independent" too. He is clearly worshiping his lady, singing about all the reasons "that's why I love her" which have to do with every aspect of his lover.
Love Ne-Yo. "So Sick" is a breakup song, so it doesn't qualify for this list, but "Miss Independent" has such an awesome message.
what about snow patrol's "just say yes" and "ordinary people" by John Legend? This feels like this list had way too much hipster influence in it.
Yeah! Maps at #1!
No John Legend, "Ordinary People" was a beautiful take on the vagaries of love. Well how about Amy Winehouse then, "Tears Dry On Their Own" or "You Sent Me Flying"?
I just listened to all these songs and for some reason my skin became whiter and my teeth became brighter.
For once I actually agree with the number 1 song. Though, "First Day of My Life" could have been number 1 in my opinion, I miss the girl who turned me on to Bright Eyes...
How come there are absolutely no Plain White T's songs on this list? What about Colbie Callait? Jason Mraz? I think you left of many that are WAY better than most of the songs on this list.
I don't have any major quibbles with this list. I would strike the No Doubt and Drake selections, and replace them respectively with Colbie Callait (yes, probably "Bubbly") and "Love Song" by 311.
Yes! I had Colbie's "The Little Things" on repeat when I started falling for my current boyfriend. "The little things you do to me are / Taking me over, I wanna show you / Everything inside of me / Like a nervous heart that is crazy beating..."
Plain White T's and Jason Mraz are just plain awful. That "Hey There Delilah" made me want to stab people
Nickelback "Figured You OUt" is on my top 10 list due to its' honesty, both looking out and looking in. Yes? Discuss....
Nope.
...No.
Nickelback should not be on the top list of anything. Except for worst hair on a lead singer.
I'm just so happy they had Regina Spektor.
I know everyone's blasting Drake on this list....but I have to admit, the music video is pure hilarious, genius.
Talib Kweli 'Never Been in Love Before' nuff said
Where's Elbow? Nothing expresses that helpless, breathless, head-over-heels, loss of self better than some of the songs on The Seldom Seen Kid.
Seconded. Starlings is beautiful.
I'd have to say that "Know By Heart" by American Analog Set perfectly encapsulates love-as-rapt-attention, which is how I experience it, and it does it all in about eight lines.
Other than the Drake, Jay-Z and Beyonce nods, which seem to be there just to include R&B and hip-hop (no Musiq Soulchild?), this is a really solid list. I'm feeling blissfully nostalgic right now...
"Oh, It Is Love" by Hellogoodbye is still my favourite. Oh, and "Beautiful" by Danny Michel. Swoon!
Hey There Delilah, I'll Follow You Into the Dark, and Anyone Else But You. These were pretty darn popular and simple love songs that shouldn't have been overlooked.
Oh man I love Justin Timberlakes song "My Love" especially the breakdown - I play the tune over and over. dano http://www.danosongs.com
so sad i only know a few of them others i don't like why are like a rose-a1, this i promise you-n-sync and lay my love on you and many other great songs not there!!
I don't get this list. No Doubt? Are you you serious? That song is pure mediocrity - lyrically and musically. Also, if you've got boring songs like the Avett Brothers on this list just to show your folk/bluegrass/country cred, where was Allison Krauss' superb "When You Say Nothing At All" on the '80s list? I would agree with all of the people wondering where the Death Cab For Cutie is or Animal Collective. Sufjan Stevens' "Rake" is a poor choice. So is "The Luckiest." Justin Timberlake's "My Love" is hollow bullshit guys say to get you in bed and The White Stripes song feels like a forced choice. I maintain that "Designs on You" is a far better love song by the Old 97s, as is "Falling Slowly" by the Swell Season. Also, I think you made a typo in your Iron & Wine entry. I'm pretty sure you meant to type "Bon Iver 'Blood Bank'" instead.
Fade into You by Mazzy Star needed to be near the top.
It's near the top of the '90s list, because it came out in the '90s.
wow there are No country songs here..
I'll take any chance I can get to crow about Agent Ribbons. I consider these to be love songs cause I'm totally in love with them:
"Birds and Bees": www.youtube.com/watch?v=ki3xiXOLUNg
"I Was Born to Sing Sad Songs": www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIFhLes95Gs
"Buried With You": www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywrlLd_Vn6I
"Bird in the Mirror": www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR90UacrUx4
"That's Not Edgar's Heart": www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnV4uFpgwFk
This list is worthless without Romeo and Juliet (Dire Straits).
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yo my music peps what is the song sung about 'gilfriends' around 2000 to 2005 ... well idk soooo HELP!!!!!
how about "Yes" by Musiq Soulchild, which is a song from the 2000s, specifically 2011, and it is a beautiful love song, just hear the lyrics.
were the hell is i miss you by blink 182 or all the small things?