woman looking at chocolate fountain

Valentine's Day in Japan is celebrated a little bit differently than here in the United States, as women present chocolates to male co-workers, as opposed to husbands and lovers, in a tradition known as "giri choco," or "obligation chocolate."

"On Valentine's Day, I expect many people to start giving chocolates to colleagues. I made and gave chocolates to fifteen male colleagues. It took me three hours to make them. The reaction from them was really good. I enjoyed Valentine's Day," said Tokyo office worker Akemi Hayashibara, sounding as if all fifteen colleagues were watching her being interviewed.

The role-reversing custom in Japan began around 1950, and has expanded to "sewa choco," where women give chocolates to men they respect (and implying that under "giri choco" they give chocolates to scumbags they wouldn't otherwise give the time of day to), and "tomo choco," where they give chocolates to female friends. Since February 14 falls on a weekday this year, analysts say they expect a bonanza for Japanese candy makers. Maybe "relationship expert" Marc Rudov should move to Japan.

Commentarium (7 Comments)

Feb 14 11 - 9:23pm
Tyr

Yes, and March 14th is the reverse, White Day, when the men give their female colleagues etc white gifts (usually chosen by their wives). Geez, talk about half an article.

Feb 15 11 - 8:00am
nope

This was clearly never intended to be more than a "Those wacky Japs!" article. "Look at them, doing things slightly different than the way we do! Isn't that fascinating!"

Feb 14 11 - 9:24pm
cc

So, I'm guessing that Japanese men don't have to buy obligation chocolate to any women in their lives?

so glad i'm not there...

Feb 14 11 - 10:00pm
Jinna

Yeah, this is the tip of the iceberg in terms of the neurotic desire to please people abound in JP. But you neglected to mention White Day, which is when the men who received chocolates or whatever are required to give something nice back to the ladies, or forever be known as a cheapskate.

Feb 14 11 - 11:10pm
Matt

it's like back in elementary school when you had to give candy or cards to everybody in the class

Feb 15 11 - 3:40am
S

I knew about this already because I read manga.

Feb 15 11 - 9:48am
D

Man Nerve has really gone downhill in the last 6 months