I felt and was bonded to my first wife because:
a) I didn't love her
b) I wanted sex with others

I don't feel bonded to my second wife
a) I do love her
b) I do have sex with others - and so does she

:-)

I am 61 and happily married to a much younger woman. She is a stunner, a classic So. California blond with thick curly hair and a great figure. My friends and I never talk about other women, let alone our sex lives. To me it is crude and smacks of barracks talk or locker room jock BS. Sure, I notice striking women and their body language and overall appearance. Although childless, I have a full life. Travel, backpacking in the Sierra, kayaking in Belize, a holiday on Crete, a trip to Munich for Oktoberfest ( I survived two as a young GI stationed outside Munich). I have a great career and my wife does too. We party sometimes, but I am friendly, I do not flirt. Some men come on to my wife, but she cannot recall anyone being crude or overly friendly. Sexually, she reads Cosmo or Redbook and comes up with some great hints. Men, check out what many women dream about involving positions, fantasy men and being told to wear nothing but high heels!

It's nice to see that all men don't sit around and think: "Geez that woman has a nice ass.....I would love to fuck her" that love is deeper and men are not ruled solely by lust.

The show is so stupid and hope it doesn't last long.

The main character on the show is a real asshole. He is juvenile selfish and petty, and does not appreciate the woman he is married to (who is far more attractive than the sex bomb at the office). He has yet to learn that if he makes his wife happy in bed, she will enthusiatically reciprocate. Once he learns the secret to a successful sexual relationship (the lady ALWAYS comes first), then he will be happier at home (but then the show would have no reason to exist - and we will all be better off).